At what age did you stop trying to please bytches with unrealistic expectations

[Jalether]

Some bytches be on that "whatever nikka, drown a fish if you trynna impress me" wave
If by the age of 24 you still haven't figured out that you can't please everyone and you should never waste your energy on hard to please chicks then you will stay losing

 

[old pig]

5...when rhonda asked me for some candy and threatened not to be my girlfriend if I didn’t give her any...what candy got to do w/ us?

 

[PortCityProphet]

Im still outchea selling these hoes dreams :shansaints:

 

[Jalether]

5...when rhonda asked me for some candy and threatened not to be my girlfriend if I didn’t give her any...what candy got to do w/ us?

HOH since elementary

 

[Mr. Negative]

it wasn't til like 2014, after I was waaaay past grown.

but I was raised the only guy in a family full of man hating women and control freaks. Had me well trained, like love and affection from women was this unattainable brass ring that I as a man should always strive for. Very "carrot and stick".


Hell, when I realized how much I devalued myself in the face of women, shyt was painful. Hold on let me if I can find the post.

 

[Neuromancer]

2012.

 

[Jalether]

it wasn't til like 2014, after I was waaaay past grown.

but I was raised the only guy in a family full of man hating women and control freaks. Had me well trained, like love and affection from women was this unattainable brass ring that I as a man should always strive for. Very "carrot and stick".


Hell, when I realized how much I devalued myself in the face of women, shyt was painful. Hold on let me if I can find the post.

Did a switch just flipped in you or was it based on a particular experience you had with a chick

 

[old pig]

HOH since elementary

I’ve “softened up” over time lol

 

[ORDER_66]

I think when I was about 20ish I snapped outta all the simp shyt... got tired of trying with these birdbrains when they constantly do dumb shyt...

 

[Mr. Negative]

it wasn't til like 2014, after I was waaaay past grown.

but I was raised the only guy in a family full of man hating women and control freaks. Had me well trained, like love and affection from women was this unattainable brass ring that I as a man should always strive for. Very "carrot and stick".


Hell, when I realized how much I devalued myself in the face of women, shyt was painful. Hold on let me if I can find the post.

can't find it.

but yeah, I was in and out of shytty one sided relationships cause I felt like those one or two moments of feeling like I was important to a woman made me putting up with their anger, bitterness, sociopathic behaviour and Fischer-Price level mind games worth it.

Wasn't until I realized I was miserable in a relationship but it felt "normal" because it was all I was used to that I snapped out of it.

It honestly felt like learning my religion was a lie.


I'm okay now though

 

[Mr. Negative]

Did a switch just flipped in you or was it based on a particular experience you had with a chick

see above post.

It literally was like a switch was flipped.

My then current girl was mad that I hadn't baked some cookies or some shyt, and I was thinking about how I hated when she was around but couldn't wait til she showed up. How I felt like I did when I was a kid and my mom would walk out a room just cause I walked in it.

then..

I dumped her on the spot.

 

[old pig]

see above post.

It literally was like a switch was flipped.

My then current girl was mad that I hadn't baked some cookies or some shyt, and I was thinking about how I hated when she was around but couldn't wait til she showed up. How I felt like I did when I was a kid and my mom would walk out a room just cause I walked in it.

LOL!!!!!!!

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Never tried to please a bytch in my life

I'm lying. I was playing with my bytch this morning. She's so pretty and down to fukk anyone up. She loves to run in the park.

I love her

 

[Kenny West]

Never started

 

[Address_Unknown]

After like my fourth woman did I realize that no matter how much I pampered them, overlooked certain transgressions and allowed them to be angry with me while not getting angry myself did i notice catering to them unequivocally was never the way.

They see that as a weakness and end up using you while slithering towards dudes that don't give a solitary shyt about them past wearing them out and leaving.

I didn't want to turn into a scumbag and be out here selling broads dreams, so I just took a Hardline approach when I was about 24 or so and learned how to simply dead a broad trying to devalue me as a man while wanting to reap all the benefits of me being calm and faithfull to her.

fukk that, earn my respect by giving me the same shyt and bask in my comfort and affection. Nah? You just want dikk? We could do that too and I can treat you like an appointment?

That makes 'em wise up and chose a path as opposed to playing games like broads do when they gotva good dude but ain't exactly keen on respecting his feelings since he putting her on a goddamned pedestal.