OfTheCross
Veteran
I'm feeling this ac air blowing on only one spot in the back of my head
shyt getting kinda rough up there
At what point did you know it was time to let go? *pics pending*
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I'm feeling this ac air blowing on only one spot in the back of my head
shyt getting kinda rough up there
Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
Bruh
I'm going to the dermatologist
I hope they tell me something good
I'm going to the dermatologist
I hope they tell me something good
I got about a year left
NotAnFBIagent
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nikkas going 
in their 20s
Sorry brehs
in their 20s Sorry brehs
DatNkkaCutty
Veteran
27 
.....I knew it was time when those jokes was startin up at the shop...A ngga tried to save face a few times at 1st by gettin some bigen....but be a ngga in the chair when a female u know from the town comes in the shop like, 
" I didnt know u were bald, whats that they'e puttin on your head?" 
....
...Just take it off nd save yourself the shame
.....I knew it was time when those jokes was startin up at the shop...A ngga tried to save face a few times at 1st by gettin some bigen....but be a ngga in the chair when a female u know from the town comes in the shop like, " I didnt know u were bald, whats that they'e puttin on your head?" .......Just take it off nd save yourself the shame
OfTheCross
Veteran
27
what's bigen?
Bald men are attractive 
Beloved, I think you mean bald men who are comfortable in their own skin are attractive.Bald men are attractive
That breh who has a baldie with his shoulder's sunk in and acts introverted because he thinks he's at a disadvantage would look like a semi-attractive cornball compared to an identical twin who owns that shyt, not arrogant and obnoxious, but organically.
Biggie is the blueprint. I try to tell these brehs. Ugly ain't real unless people are picking their mates out of a Sears catelog. But in the real world, that personality can be the difference.
Let anything that will make you constantly think about it on some low self-esteem shyt go.
The key is remaining confident. Not to the extreme of "emperor has no clothes" shyt:
But a combination of social awareness of what is socially acceptable or not + a willingness to go somewhat outside the lines of that and be confident about yourself + the letting go of all that constantly makes you uncomfortable will put you in the best spot, breh.
Let that hair go. You'll see the reactions - which aren't about how bad it looks, it'll be based on people being shocked because of the change.
After a while, the current people get comfortable with it and new people you meet already accept it because they have no knowledge of you before [whatever insecurity about hair or whatever].
Once you yourself become comfortable in it... shyt will be vibrating hrough your personality and you'll realize no one is thinking about anything but how comfortable you are with yourself.
Look at Lebron. I think he should cut it, but that's only because troll brehs and comedians want to get a quick laugh but, honestly, dude looks genuinely happy in his skin. And his lack of insecurity really shows in everything I've seen him do, on and off the court.
I guarantee Joakim Noah has more insecurity about his shooting form than Lebron has about his male pattern baldness.