At what point do you aware the girl you are with about how much you make a year?

[M617]

Right away? 1 week? 1 month? 1 year? Never?


When do you usually aware the girl you just started seeing about your income? Do you like to let them know early so they know they may not be dealing with a rich guy but they are definitly dealing with someone with their shyt together.

 

[Cynic]

Never.

In my case it attracts goldiggers and even though I have disposable income. I'm the stingiest n!gga alive

 

[BOX ALARM]

I told my girl about 3 months in the relationship. I knew we were in the same ballpark so it wasn't a big deal either way.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

As long as he can take care of himself and his ish, me knowing isn't necessary.

 

[Illeye buckmatic]

:wtfnas: why would you do that?
You trying to give away your money,huh:nawnikka:
If they don't know,they can't ask:naswon:

 

[Ray Jesus]

At what point do you aware the girl you are with about how much you make a year?

I don't do riddles.

 

[1thouwow]

I'll never tell her the exact amount ill make but i'll let her know i ain't a broke nikka but that dont necessarily mean i'm ballin.

 

[Turbulent]

when/if you get married.

EDIT: and even then...

 

[-G$-]

we exchanged our ADP passwords on the first date.

 

[the cac mamba]

thread title made my brain hurt

 

[Rawtid]

When you get engaged.

 

[SuburbanPimp]

No girlfriend has ever known exactly how much I made except two of them and the only reason they knew is because they needed my check stub for some transactions.

Of course they knew ballpark figures but I don't see why they would need to know exactly what I make. If I got a job and I'm not constantly whining or worried about money then they should be cool.

 

[Bruh Man 5th Flo]

when you move in together......been with my girl for a year and a half we are gonna move in together in June/July, and i'm pretty sure she thinks i make more than what i really make, she'll be in for a nice surprise when i lay that budget plan down

 

[Rawtid]

when you move in together......been with my girl for a year and a half we are gonna move in together in June/July, and i'm pretty sure she thinks i make more than what i really make, she'll be in for a nice surprise when i lay that budget plan down

<insert rant about shacking up>. Breh, don't do it.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

Marriage.