That point where the light bulb turns on and you realize that I am who I am, I feel how I feel, I want what I want and outside opinions be damned. I would say I started after my baby sis passed away. I learned through that there is never going to truly be an appropriate response to anything. There is never going to be one path to anything and that you have to allow yourself to be human and not a concept. So when did it hit you that you have to be who you are and the people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind?
