Ayoo Do you feel like men need to sew their oats before getting into a committed relationship?

[Mass]

I was talking to some chick who was trying to of course drag me into a relationship ... and i told her how i aint ready for that life unless shorty is very on point and i know i cant resist ... otherwise we need to just take things really slow and see if we can really fit in each otherws world ... and she said ..

I understand, you just need to sew your oats

Im like who the fukk uses "Sew oats" in a modern day conversation

But nevertheless Coli friends, i pose the question to you!

Do you think this needs to happen first?

 

[Medio]

so you gonna tell us what sew their oats means or what?

 

[Mass]

so you gonna tell us what sew their oats means or what?

1.
sew your wild oats
to have sex with as many people, enojy life, and have fun before settling down
"i need to sew my wild oats" or " go and sew your wild oats

Thats the urban dictionary..reason i knew what it was i read that shyt in a book when i was in middle school i had this overbearing teacher that wanted us to compete with Asians and shyt even said it himself. He was a good dude tho

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

I think you handled the situation with the girl well. And no, I don't think you need to show your oats, but everybody is different.

 

[Family Man]

When women do it you same nikkas call it "hoeing" right?

 

[ScoopNScore]

sew, show? its actually "sow wild oats"!

But anyway, settle down when you feel good and comfortable, not when you feel pressured to. If you want to play the field first, it's your choice. Not everyone is the same and you don't want to be with someone longterm and still have that thirst enough to want to go after anyone else or live out a fantasy shorty isn't fine with.

 

[Torrential]

did your phone autocorrect "say their vows" to "sew their oats" or something

 

[Mass]

When women do it you same nikkas call it "hoeing" right?

Im actually in the crib all day today .. finally ... feels good... got a free sunday ..

And i planned on making a thread about this.

Why do nikkas spend so much time chasing p*ssy ..... get it .. then get upset with the girl and call her a ho and kick her out..... never understood it myself breh.

Now .. a "Ho" .. a TRUE ho is something different entirely ... but going on what you just said ... is basically yea ... if a bytch wants to be free for a while fukk it let her do it

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

your girl ate my oatmeal this morning

 

[Mass]

your girl ate my oatmeal this morning

Edit .. read that wrong ...

Anyway good responses .. Thanks to all who contributed.

 

[YoungMasterGold]

You mean "sow your wild oats." You know, as in reaping what you sow, if you plant those oats in the wrong hole. You feel me?

 

[MekaCatt]

What you doing breh ? Why aren't you supporting me in my time of need.

 

[mortuus est]

what dat mean - lil reese

 

[cam>]

Genius, if a person can't even get all the words in an idiom correct, you probably shouldn't trust that they know what it even means.


It's "sow", as in, to plant scattered around. Not sew, as in, a fkn sweater.
Children are sometimes referred to as seeds. So "sowing your wild oats" means to have (plant) illegitimate (wild)children(oats) scattered around.

And no, that's not a good idea.

1.
sew your wild oats
to have sex with as many people, enojy life, and have fun before settling down
"i need to sew my wild oats" or " go and sew your wild oats

 

[Inglewood]

I don't. And don't want to.