Baddie trusted male friend to walk her home, gets raped and murdered

[Umoja]

You make no sense, both are dangerous. How is her dad an idiot? Her example may not exactly fit the context but it does fit somewhat regardless of is criminal past.

Because he is speaking it absolutes.

To be honest, calling him an idiot was extreme and apologise @Ashley Banks. As a father, you will advise your daughter to effectively err on the side of caution so it doesn't really make sense to pack her head with the idea that some men are different.

However when we're speaking as adults, it is necessary to respect the fact that most men don't act like. They'll deal with their pain in silence and move on.

The men that attack are predators and it makes zero sense to call them friends or argue that they have legitimate affection for the person. If you cared about someone, you wouldn't try to rape them.

They simply present themselves as friends to create the opportunity.

 

[kwazzy100]

For a young black man it matters a lot you moron. He didn't just wake up and decide to rape and murder a woman.

He kinda did. He acted out on his sick depraved mind. Things like sexual harassment, the bar shouldn't be lowered for us, no matter. He knew what he was doing was wrong.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

But most people without father figures do not become homicidal sociopaths, so that point is ultimately irrelevant.

I never said most without father figures become homicidal sociopaths

It's an observation and that's it. Don't really care if you think it's relevant or not.

 

[Phitz]

Because he is speaking it absolutes.

To be honest, calling him an idiot was extreme and apologise @Ashley Banks. As a father, you will advise your daughter to effectively err on the side of caution so it doesn't really make sense to pack her head with the idea that some men are different.

However when we're speaking as adults, it is necessary to respect the fact that most men don't act like. They'll deal with their pain in silence and move on.

The men that attack are predators and it makes zero sense to call them friends or argue that they have legitimate affection for the person. If you cared about someone, you wouldn't try to rape them.

They simply present themselves as friends to create the opportunity.

I don't think absolutes was his mindset, I think he was giving her this information as a protection in the event that the rejected person could tilt their feelings in a dangerous direction.

I'ts more precautionary just in case as you mentioned 'err on the side of caution'

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

He kinda did. He acted out on his sick depraved mind. Things like sexual harassment, the bar shouldn't be lowered for us, no matter. He knew what he was doing was wrong.

No he kinda didn't considering it wasn't his first offense.

I wasn't lowering the bar but of course that's what you got out of the observation

 

[Ashley Banks]

Had a "friend" try to rape me. I nevwr saw it coming coz we had been friends for over a year and it was always completely platonic on my part.

Seemed convinced that he was inlove with me. Who the fk would try to rape someone they "love".

He still triedd to date me after the incident, didn't seem to grasp our friendship was over.

Learnt the scary way. Try not to be with any man in an isolated place. And i kept resisting probably why he didn't go through with it. He would would have had to kill me if he had raped me coz next stop would be the police...

Also I think he thougt I would just resist a bit then give in or something. Just sat there on the bed staring at me and then tried to act like nothing had happened. All i kept thinking was even if I make it out the door I will never make it past his dogs or his locked gate.... yes we were in his bedroom coz i had slept over many times and we just hung out like friends, i was young and dumb....

Till that day I had never realised how much stronger men are than women. If he had decided to beat me up or just rape me there would have been nothing I could have done to resist him.

I posted about this years ago in another thread.

Im 5'11 so I'm not small, unfortunately not strong either. Coz by struggling what mean was he was holding me down with one hand and I couldn't budge him at all, he was just trying to kiss me and i tried to thrash around, he was trying to undress me with the other hand. Also I was trying to stay calm and "sternly" tell him to stop playing. He played univesity team sports, so on top of being male and stronger he was very butf but just a bit shorter than me.

I learnt that day, i always throw away drinks from men who send iver drinks in clubs and stuff, even if the waitress onsists she the guy never got near it. Im just paranoid, will give ladies a lift from events like church... But will tell ken I am sorry, but no....

Sorry you had to go through that

I also really underestimated how much stronger he could be than me, I’m not small either I’m 5’8 but I literally couldn’t even move him and he was only using one hand to choke me/hold me down. A lot of men get offended when we say you gotta treat all men like potential threats but I could have easily been dead because I didn’t have my guard up around him. We know not all men are rapists/murderers but it only takes 1 man to end my life so I’d rather be cautious.

 

[TheBigBopper]

90% of women are creepy abusing control freaks
difference is, they become that way AFTER getting into a relationship with you
can only hold the act up until their "emotions" get involved...
then they see all their actions as justified

This. I wouldn't trust my sister with a random nikka at 3 AM but I wouldn't trust my brother with a random bytch at 3 AM either. That bytch might be trying to set him up with a false rape charge or a baby. Can't trust damn near anyone these days.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

Sorry you had to go through that

I also really underestimated how much stronger he could be than me, I’m not small either I’m 5’8 but I literally couldn’t even move him and he was only using one hand to choke me/hold me down. A lot of men get offended when we say you gotta treat all men like potential threats but I could have easily been dead because I didn’t have my guard up around him. We know not all men are rapists/murderers but it only takes 1 man to end my life so I’d rather be cautious.

@Ashley Banks sorry you had to go through that

Incels are trash

 

[number21]

It legit bothers me when dudes say this shyt. You don't know one chick you actually respect & don't need to fukk?

Nah. What the hell I'm going to be talking to her about?


My problem and issues? Most to damn near all of these modern women are too narcissistic to even try doing that even when you're in a actual relationship.

Her problem and issues? I ain't interested in attempting to deal with that unless I'm getting some p*ssy.

Her teaching the female perspective? Ain't interested and it will be a load of nonsense that really only applies to her for the most part.

Her helping me getting other chicks, like her friends? Once again ain't interested as it will eventually lead to her being jealous and attempting to reak havoc within the relationship. As, she will losing some the attention and time I was giving her and a female friend to me. Also, I dont need no woman to help me eat.

But yeah whatever nonsensical reason nikkas like you want to have female friends. It just doesn't interest me or cats with sense at all.

 

[SheWantTheD]

My dad told me at young age then men turn into demons when they want you but can’t have you. He said if a guy likes you and you don’t feel the same way just stay away from him, I learned that the hard luckily i didn’t die. Crazy, he needs to die in prison.

rip to the girl, sad she was betrayed by someone she considered a friend.

This is the most retarded shyt ever. Do you believe your sons and nephews will become demonic because a female rejected them?

There are plenty of men that come into your life for brief moment, get turned down and keep it moving. Have you gotten amnesia about these men?

Just because the few crazy motherfukkers are memorable doesn’t mean we all can’t take rejection.

I don’t know what kind of bullshyt ya father was telling ya

 

[SheWantTheD]

It legit bothers me when dudes say this shyt. You don't know one chick you actually respect & don't need to fukk? Really? I know plenty.

I have women around me trying to temp me. They know we get along & have fun but I LOVE somebody else. If I was hanging out with your girl you got no problems. I don't need a disloyal chick around me.

If they trying to tempt you when you have a girl they ain’t loyal

 

[SheWantTheD]

You make no sense, both are dangerous. How is her dad an idiot? Her example may not exactly fit the context but it does fit somewhat regardless of is criminal past.

Did you read her post? She may have misquoted her father but not all men react to to rejection negatively.

 

[SheWantTheD]

30 percent of men are creepy weirdos..
But they are not ready for that discussion

Fred

You’ve done plenty of weirdo creepy shyt but aiight I’ll let you tell it.

And no I am not condoning predators.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

You’ve done plenty of weirdo creepy shyt but aiight I’ll let you tell it.

And no I am not condoning predators.

Breh i never said i wasnt the captain of the creep squad

 

[Street Knowledge]

Give up your freedom breh