That poor child is going to have issues with men when she gets older. I get that her child's father is a deadbeat., but imo, nothing is more damaging to a child than her mother telling her that " her father is a deadbeat, ain't shyt etc" because although it might be the truth, a child especially, a young girl is going to grow up with commitment issues. This might not be the case here but I've seen so many mothers that openly resent their child's father and they're child deals with the psychological ramifications of it.