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Is Her Weight Something She Should Be Proud Of?


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Kwéyòl

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There's nothing wrong with her post. It's not like her body type will become the standard for beauty any time soon. I give her props for being confident enough to give herself to the wolves. I'm tired of people acting like their body type is the only one that gets stared at in public. I'm a boy and people comment on my body everyday. Sometimes it's negative sometimes it's positive, but I don't take it personally.​
It used to be a sign of wealth to be fat

Now it's people see it as a sign of poverty
 

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Apparently she is a rape victim.

Society (And My Rapist) Says I'm Too Ugly to Be Raped - BGD

"I was raped when I was 18 by a man who subsequently told me that I should feel grateful that anyone would want to touch me. “You should feel so lucky, you fat bytch,” he said. I never told anyone because why would anyone believe that a fat Black girl like me could be assaulted, when my own attacker made sure to mention that I was fortunate to even be considered for such violence. My attacker made sure to remind me that rape is a badge of honor that only worthy women can wear and that I was lucky to be chosen."

Perhaps this info provides us with some perspective :patrice:
 

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Apparently she is a rape victim.

Society (And My Rapist) Says I'm Too Ugly to Be Raped - BGD

"I was raped when I was 18 by a man who subsequently told me that I should feel grateful that anyone would want to touch me. “You should feel so lucky, you fat bytch,” he said. I never told anyone because why would anyone believe that a fat Black girl like me could be assaulted, when my own attacker made sure to mention that I was fortunate to even be considered for such violence. My attacker made sure to remind me that rape is a badge of honor that only worthy women can wear and that I was lucky to be chosen."

Perhaps this info provides us with some perspective :patrice:

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I don't have an issue with her "confidence" which is clearly sublimated false confidence, but I don't buy into her nonsense. Like, who is talking to her about anything? No one is stopping and chatting her up about her body at all. People are likely just ignoring her and not really giving her the time of day which is why she feels to the need to post these bullshyt affirmations of body positivism all over her social media profiles.

No in shape or pretty chicks go around posting this kind of insecure nonsense (which kind of proves the point of those who she feels are "shaming" her).

It's cool to be who you are and be comfortable with it, but if you're trying to tell me how to feel about it, we have issues. For the most part, people like being around other folks who give off a good social vibe. Most people aren't going to hang around folks who are terribly lame (unless they are lame) or low-rent. Being out-of-shape just happens to be one of the biggest social flags. It can be overcome with an amazing personality, but it's still an uphill battle.

She's basically asking other people to do what she would not do. :yeshrug:

I think what was said here sums it all up......I'm not saying it doesn't happen ever, but it's highly unlikely a stranger is just stopping and rapping to this broad about her body. And if they are, I would wager they probably are genuinely concerned. People have their own shyt going on, and to think they are taking time out their day to stop and degrade someone just because they are fat, I just have a hard time believing that. Low self esteem, and insecurities is what has her thinking every time somebody laughs, its at her, when in reality, they probably aren't looking or thinking twice about her.
You can't control what other people do with their eyes, or say out their mouth. What other people find attractive, and unattractive. Worrying about what complete strangers think about you is a clear indication of insecurities. Confident people, don't have to scream their confident to the world, they exude it through the way they carry themselves, regardless of what anyone else has to say.
There is nothing healthy about the weight this woman is carrying.....period. Her being comfortable with who she is, and confident is great, but she is absolutely inaccurate with what she is pushing. I agree most who are making comments, aren't really concerned about her health, but does that really matter? She is entitled to feel how she feels, just like others, are entitled to feel how they feel, but that doesn't change the reality of the situation, which is being obese isn't healthy. This is common sense!!
 

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Apparently she is a rape victim.

Society (And My Rapist) Says I'm Too Ugly to Be Raped - BGD

"I was raped when I was 18 by a man who subsequently told me that I should feel grateful that anyone would want to touch me. “You should feel so lucky, you fat bytch,” he said. I never told anyone because why would anyone believe that a fat Black girl like me could be assaulted, when my own attacker made sure to mention that I was fortunate to even be considered for such violence. My attacker made sure to remind me that rape is a badge of honor that only worthy women can wear and that I was lucky to be chosen."

Perhaps this info provides us with some perspective :patrice:
If this is true, it makes a lot more sense.
 
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