Being the side piece as a man

Mr Rager

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What do you brehs think about that?
I'm in a situation right now...chick has a man. She keeps talking about they're getting serious. But she's still running to me (:youngsabo:)

It's cool just getting in it with no strings attached but at the same time it's annoying having to work around her schedule. Like she flips out when I get her home like 10 mins late and stuff. But she still comes through whenever I want.

Is it a bytch move to be the side man? Or is it winning?

Enlighten me.
 

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If it works for you, you should continue your demonic association. Dont get her pregnant.
 

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When you are the side man you are not the side man. You are the lover and he is the provider.

She is fukking you because you are better as a lover to her than a provider (bf). Meaning you have largely a pure sexual relationship. She values your sex more than his but values his security and providing over yours.

You will actually see her lose interest in her man soon and she will likely try to secure as a bf if she gets sprung

So for short term being a lover > provider so right now you are winning. A lot
 

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When you are the side man you are not the side man. You are the lover and he is the provider.

She is fukking you because you are better as a lover to her than a provider (bf). Meaning you have largely a pure sexual relationship. She values your sex more than his but values his security and providing over yours.

You will actually see her lose interest in her man soon and she will likely try to secure as a bf if she gets sprung

So for short term being a lover > provider so right now you are winning. A lot

They don't hear you breh:wow:A GROWN woman in a relationship, but cant help for falling for a nikka is one of gods cruelest jokes.

These bytches will literally change their lives to make you happy as long as her man doesn't find out.They will love you and not give a fukk about you and your relationship.They buy you shyt:ohhh:Help you secure shyt for YOUR house:wow:They swallow:wow:do anal:wow:even let you cum in them:blessed:. They were never into this kind of shyt before, but something about a nikka got them open.Man I miss that kind of shyt:bryan::bryan::bryan::bryan::bryan::bryan::bryan::bryan:
 

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Just depends on where you are with it. Do you have other chicks or this your main action?

You're right, most chicks, you're gonna share regardless. I feel like me personally, I don't have time to give a chick adequate attention. She's getting it from somewhere and I ain't diccin' them down regularly either but when I come thru or him em up, it's a go.

So you gotta respect the game and play it how it goes. If she got something going on, respect it and play by the rules. If you can't, don't waste ya time with her.

I'm sure dealing with a chick with a dude means she's not the only chick you're messing with so don't sweat the small shyt. Do yo thang and let her do hers too.
 

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When you are the side man you are not the side man. You are the lover and he is the provider.

She is fukking you because you are better as a lover to her than a provider (bf). Meaning you have largely a pure sexual relationship. She values your sex more than his but values his security and providing over yours.

You will actually see her lose interest in her man soon and she will likely try to secure as a bf if she gets sprung

So for short term being a lover > provider so right now you are winning. A lot
:ohhh: this makes a lot of sense actually
 
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