i was thinking about black people meet....
That is the worst dating site.
Especially if they have never upgraded the interface and the options.
All the paid dating sites have the worst search options as well.
To this day pof has the best options and interface I have seen for finding black women.
blacksingles.com, messed up the black dating paid site a long time ago to be honest.
As they continued to take free features away.
Plus the quality of women was huff as well.
Plus the great looking women all wound up on pof, anyway.
Only site that I felt was worth it was obc.com.
Even, though...
You would want certain women and they would not be a paid member.
So, you were sending mail in vain.
Which is what fukks paid dating sites up.
As women have suitors and higher quality women are not going to pay for the site.
So, you paying for a paid site.
Where none of the great women have done nuffin but setup a free profile.
Where you mailing them will go ignored.
As they do not have to pay to keep action from being fiyoine and having real world suitors.
There is always the exception to the rule.
Yet, who wants to pay for every now and then waiting on the exception to the rule to register and pay.
When real talk internet dating is a paid site first noob venture.
To eventually you being a former paid site person, turned free site person anyway.
The best thing about paid sites is women from other cities and countries.
Pool of guys in their area being scarce so they contact you.
Yet there is always ld cooch which is wack as you get older.
Especially, if you got a real sex drive.
Plus you just paid for a site and the only real dope girl.
Is out the country, or states away in a place where there are no black guys.
When you want someone close to smash every night.
Imo, pof is still the best.
Now, have I had some great been the adulterer sex on bs.
Yes
Have I had women from the UK, on bs?
Yes
Have I had great one night stands on obc?
Yes yes.
Yet and still,....
Pof, i did more in higher volume and the women consistently were better in closer vicinity, too.
Plus the women who were long distance or suburbanites or surrounding cities.
shyt I had a actual committed relationship with.
So, imo...pof is the best thing for online dating.
There is one I wanna try, but the interface is so huff.
Plus the people who viewed me do not match up to their this person wants to meet you mailings.
That I think paying would be a waste of money.
Although it is some online bootycall dot come type site.
Which i see you must not want the addie, to.
As you have not pm'd me to inquire about it.
Which goes to show you how little people think of paid dating sites.
Sugardaddy.com is like the only pay site.
I could see would be worth it if you were rich.
Yet, I am not rich.
So, I have not experienced it to know.
Past seeing all the fine pof girls in the Chicago area with log-in's at Sd.com.
At, the same time they were on pof.
Plus those women's profiles were never great on a free site and worse on sd.com.
Plus real talk women in Chicago are not that bad like that.
To have to pay for sd.com.
Real talk, it is like five or six women in the chi, who are black all time.
I have seen having dating sites profiles.
That when i think about it.
Paying for a dating site in the chi.
Is not worth it because the pool of chic's is not hot enough to warrant spending the bread at sd.com
Let alone any other pay site.
Plus, i am sure one of my ex's is all time one of the baddest in the history of the chi.
Whom, I met before I ever online dated at the mall.
after, webroke up.
I started to use online dating services.
To find a woman who looked better faster and to this day.
That has never happened, at all.
So, i priced myself out the market in Chicago anyway.
Plus she was way colder than any chic i seen in the city and online, in the Chicago area, easy.
Plus I am sure her ass was fatter than any chic in the chi as well.
So, from my experience.
All Chicago chic's are also-ran's i am dating down for anyway.
If it is all about upgrading or staying at the same level.
Which is why i need to move, but only stay around for my daughter.
Who i got custody damn near of now, anyway...
Art Barr