Best way to achieve goal...visualize FAILURE?!

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So there's this podcast I listen to called the Huberman Lab. He's a neurobiologt @ Stanford who talks about addictions, goals, stress, all kinds of topics. Anyway, he said that the best way to achieve goals is to visualize the worst things that could happen if you chose not to do what is right. I.E., if I don't exercise picture how disappointed I will be in myself. The health consequences, etc.

Sounds kinda negative but he says it's a major factor in motivation. Any thoughts on this? Agree, disagree?
 

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So there's this podcast I listen to called the Huberman Lab. He's a neurobiologt @ Stanford who talks about addictions, goals, stress, all kinds of topics. Anyway, he said that the best way to achieve goals is to visualize the worst things that could happen if you chose not to do what is right. I.E., if I don't exercise picture how disappointed I will be in myself. The health consequences, etc.

Sounds kinda negative but he says it's a major factor in motivation. Any thoughts on this? Agree, disagree?
This is true for me and something I've done since I was a kid. I appreciate failure and I appreciate constructive criticism. You can't get any worse but you could always improve if you stick with it
 

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It works in some things and not in others.

There's actually something called mindfulness. It's where you stay centered but you think enough about the past/future or failure/success that you don't get skewed and blindsided. If you think too much about failure, you'll fail. If you think too much about success, you won't find satisfaction in success because if you succeed or continue to succeed you'll push the ceiling higher or the bar farther. It's like those people that say "I didn't celebrate graduating high school, it's expected that you graduate. I didn't celebrate graduating college, I planned and expected to. I didn't celebrate buying my first house or landing a big career, I expected to."

When you're doing something in the moment like mountain biking, you always have to keep your eyes where you want the bike to go, no matter the speed whether it's slow or fast, you can't look where you don't want to go. I almost rode off a cliff thinking I could cruise. If you're running a marathon or even a half, you can't have the mindset, "what if I stop?" "What if I blow my knee out?" "What if I sprain my ankle?" You can think about that while in the car or before the run, but while running you have to keep your mind on the task at hand, and the finish. Envision yourself crossing the finish line.

That's why goal setting has to have appropriate benchmarks, deadlines, time-based, or distance measures, you have to keep yourself in check every segment. But in case of failure or setback you have to have resolutions in order.
 

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Disagree. Sounds like an easy way to get yourself stuck in a loop, especially for glass-half-empty people.
 

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man fukk that. you can manifest your negative energy. Yesterday I was about to take my shot on the 8 and out loud said "Man I know ima scratch"

guess what happened. :snoop:
 

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man fukk that. you can manifest your negative energy. Yesterday I was about to take my shot on the 8 and out loud said "Man I know ima scratch"

guess what happened. :snoop:
His point is more what happens when you procrastinate
 

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That’s a smart idea. And I think it would work well especially for black folks. One of the main reasons we are the most assaulted race in America is because a lot of us don’t have power. What is power? Power is money. We just found out in the last month that justice clarence Thomas was being doted on by a billionaire republican. Think of all the sh1t the dude has been able to get done through that dumbass.
 
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