Some members of theColi is still on that: "let's just blame the women no matter what", even though yall don't know them or their dynamic. Some of yall live in a weird mental box...
They both got into the relationship of 10 years and stayed. They both had a child together and it didn't work out.
Both of them will have no problem finding a better relationship. That relationship has seemed dead from the outside. I'm surprised they were together this long.