Black men, how did we allow this matriarchy in the black community?

[DaChampIsHere]

The engineer chart. The authors even note it.

Taking too long to load up on my phone so I'll give you that for now. From what I saw earlier it fluctuated twice but still ended with men making more in the long run.

ALL of them should be equal regardless of race/gender.

"not granted permission"? There's your, and a large portion of black women's, problem in a nut shell. I plan on marrying black, but Ill be damned if I gotta ask her permission for anything.

And some of you cats (DaCahamp, Meach, etc) are gay, oblivious, or both. Forget the stats and conjecture and observe your surroundings. Some of these women are argumentative, abrasive, and relentlessly controlling. They give a bad rep to a good ones. THAT'S the reason black men have "run away". Who wants to deal with that, or even the threat of that, for life?

My surroundings are nothing like you alls. Forget all the other stuff. Idk, if I'm just exposed to a lot of black women on the daily, but I don't encounter these problems, my friends don't encounter these problems, etc. I don't know anyone "running away" from black women. In fact I wanna say 99% of the dudes I know love and date college educated black women and that's what they want.

As far as I'm concerned white women are the same or worse.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Are people in here arguing that women should be paid less for performing the same job as a man?

I'm glad I grew out of that phase.

 

[GoPro]

Key word, SOME. my wife is none of these things, and if she tried to be it wouldn't be tolerated. Problem is dudes still give these women attention/sex then wanna complain cause they ain't shyt. Be more selective in who you deal with and you want have this problem.(not aimed directly at you, unless it applies)

Oh yeah, and it's not just black women.

So you acknowledge they exist. And by some, I mean not all, but still A LOT. Toondamn many. They don't want to be subservient, but equal. Which is understandable. But their idea of equality is they can do whatever the fukk they want to do, and we just have to take it. You see it with all of these assault videos. They instigate the fight, hit first, then cry wolf and call their white daddy when hit back. bytch, you wanna be a man, you gon get this work.

Your wife is as few and far between as they claim good black men are.



But yo, I still can't believe this broad said permission...


PERMISSION!

 

[MeachTheMonster]

So you acknowledge they exist. And by some, I mean not all, but still A LOT. Toondamn many. They don't want to be subservient, but equal. Which is understandable. But their idea of equality is they can do whatever the fukk they want to do, and we just have to take it. You see it with all of these assault videos. They instigate the fight, hit first, then cry wolf and call their white daddy when hit back. bytch, you wanna be a man, you gon get this work.

Your wife is as few and far between as they claim good black men are.



But yo, I still can't believe this broad said permission...


PERMISSION!

Yes some. But in my experiences the loud abrasive hoodrat bytch isn't very common. I thinks its more about where you are in life. If you spend most of your time in clubs, and kickin it wit the homies, you will come across women who are doing the same thing. If you spend most of your time at work/school or doing professional things, you will encounter women doing those things. When a woman figures out that she wants a man and a family she will act accordingly, you have to understand these women just want a couple drinks and some sex too, so if she's getting what she wants out of the deal, then she has no reason to change her attitude/actions.

If you want to find a good woman, stop having sex until you find her, I bet you'll find her sooner than later.

 

[Taadow]

Are people in here arguing that women should be paid less for performing the same job as a man?

Nope. Nobody was.

Nobody I saw...

 

[Will Ross]

It's hard to deal with black women because we cant win. If we are successful they see us as want to be tyrants if we are avg then we are not good enough and they can't find a man on their level