Black Men need to "Man-Up", mentor these lil nigglets out chea.

[Lavish]

i think thats the main point a lot of us are trying to make others understand

but the opposers believe these men would have turned out great if the piece of shyt sperm donors didn't run from his responsibilities.

it really boils down to these idiots believing manhood/leadership is natural from childbirth. like if a cat raised a puppy, the puppy would still know how to be a pack leader.

well a boy does need a father in his life to set an example of how to be a man.

so lets not let the fathers off the hook. but these women aint no better either. always at the club...or lettin dudes like me rearrange there ovaries when they should be watching their kids is not a good look either

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/23865-gettin-caught-fukking-unappreciation.html

 

[MikelArteta]

And I love how people are acting like when the dude met the bytch he was Barrack Obama and after he got her pregnant he turned into RedMan.

IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY!

Pretty much the dude was always garbage, broke, undependable.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Nah he's right. The same people come out the woodwork when it's a Black bashing thread on some holier than thou shyt like they literally get off on shytting on Blacks. Look at all the posts saying Black kids are impossible to mentor. They're essentially saying if you join something like Big Brothers Big Sisters the kids you meet will immediately be on some "fukk you I aint listening
to you nikka" shyt and impossible to deal with. I've mentored quite a few kids from what's arguably the poorest city for inner city Blacks in the country. Not once have I been met with complete disrespect or impertinence. Yet you've got the armchair revolutionists and holier than thou brigade trying to tell different as if they've been there.

In no place IRL do you complain/whine this much about something you will claim doesn't effect you, not take any action and expect people to take you seriously as a human being.

This is seriously like that one dude in your office who is always complaining about the boss, the job, etc. and threatening to quit, but everyday....

He's back there complaining to you...

Again...

And again...

Until the point where you know they don't even believe the shyt they are saying otherwise they would have removed themselves from the situation or tried their hands at changing things already.

This is like, a woman complaining that "nikkas ain't shyt", but always messin' around with the same nikka. At some pont you gotta realize, you part of the problem too.

You only complain about the mud when you're already knee deep in the shyt. Who ya foolin'. You dirty too.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

lol i guess you just go completely ignore da last sentence in mah post huh?

Then that negates your theory as well, dumbass.

 

[marcuz]

And I love how people are acting like when the dude met the bytch he was Barrack Obama and after he got her pregnant he turned into RedMan.

IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY!

the thing is these hoes could help fix the problem within two generations

if all these women decided in unison, they're done with guys who bring nothing but "character" to the table. things would change in our life time. if these hoes were like:

you don't have a degree
no business? or aspirations outside of rap and sports?
you dont wear suits? you spend all your money on hiphop clothes? you got tattoos all over your body
you already got 3 other women pregnant


those dudes would become lepers of the community. the younger generation of men would take note and realize they need these things to get women. instead of just pulling up with a car on 22's and you dumb bytches gettin all

 

[Mr. Somebody]

It's not a matter of "caring" it's reality. The people and the culture that we're discussing are not long for this world. It's not sustainable. And yes, the government is helping move things along.

Seems more like a dozens match to me, friend. We all know what needs to be done but obviously, for a people who in our parents lifetime were sprayed with hoses, denied rights and kept ignorant for centires, there is no overnight off and on switch for the revival of these people. There is only time and time heals, friend. When the distractions of drug selling/importing and violence become less of a factor in communities with poor education, education stats will rise and the people wiill rise. While it remains, progress will be very, very slow and not the light switch you all dream of when you speak of what people need to do and not do.

Its so demonic, friend.

 

[MikelArteta]

the thing is these hoes could help fix the problem within two generations

if all these women decided in unison, they're done with guys who bring nothing but "character" to the table. things would change in our life time. if these hoes were like:

you don't have a degree
no business? or aspirations outside of rap and sports?
you dont wear suits? you spend all your money on hiphop clothes? you got tattoos all over your body
you already got 3 other women pregnant


those dudes would become lepers of the community. the younger generation of men would take note and realize they need these things to get women. instead of just pulling up with a car on 22's and you dumb bytches gettin all

But you don't know him like I do, he's going to change once Tervian is born.

 

[marcuz]

well a boy does need a father in his life to set an example of how to be a man.

so lets not let the fathers off the hook. but these women aint no better either. always at the club...or lettin dudes like me rearrange there ovaries when they should be watching their kids is not a good look either

http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/23865-gettin-caught-fukking-unappreciation.html

i know a kid needs a father, but the question thats gone ignored is what does a man w/no skills, education or aspirations teach his children? to me, it's almost like they'd do more harm than good.

kid coming home from school and dads on madden smoking a blunt while mom is at work earning. is that the example we want to set? these problems will change when women actually begin to pick father material.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

the thing is these hoes could help fix the problem within two generations

if all these women decided in unison, they're done with guys who bring nothing but "character" to the table. things would change in our life time. if these hoes were like:

you don't have a degree
no business? or aspirations outside of rap and sports?
you dont wear suits? you spend all your money on hiphop clothes? you got tattoos all over your body
you already got 3 other women pregnant


those dudes would become lepers of the community. the younger generation of men would take note and realize they need these things to get women. instead of just pulling up with a car on 22's and you dumb bytches gettin all

Yeah but a lazy nikka is a lazy nikka. Those types don't have a problem with just getting by and not having shyt or being about shyt. They'll just lower their standards and keep it moving. There's a reason why you hear high level black women complaining about a lack of suitable black men, they don't want those nikkas you just listed either. Although you do make a point, I would say this is more 50/50 than either side taking a majority of the blame.

 

[Street Knowledge]

But you don't know him like I do, he's going to change once Tervian is born.

 

[PartyHeart]

Just skimming the last few page, a lot of you are applying problems unique to the Black community to all communities to make yourself feel better. I'm sorry, but it is unequivocally untrue that every man of every race is willing to throw his life away or go the exact opposite direction and become a successful professional depending on whatever standards women set.

It is only in the Black community where this is considered an acceptable way for young boys to be, and a female problem to correct. In other communities, boys are expected to have ambition/drive even moreso than girls, in the (American) Black community, Black men depend on Black women for everything. Its sad.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

i know a bad needs a father, but the question thats gone ignored is what does a man w/no skills, education or aspirations teach his children? to me, it's almost like they'd do more harm than good.

kid coming home from school and dads on madden smoking a blunt while mom is at work earning. is that the example we want to set? these problems will change when women actually begin to pick father material.

Here's the thing though nikkas with skills, education and "aspirations" do the same shyt. He's lucky he has that, but does that somehow make him a better role model than a nikka who doesn't?

 

[marcuz]

Yeah but a lazy nikka is a lazy nikka. Those types don't have a problem with just getting by and not having shyt or being about shyt. They'll just lower their standards and keep it moving. There's a reason why you hear high level black women complaining about a lack of suitable black men, they don't want those nikkas you just listed either. Although you do make a point, I would say this is more 50/50 than either side taking a majority of the blame.

they claim not to want them but they still sleep and procreate with them. truth is, those are the type of men when they wanted when they're young. just like that msprophet video, she talk about how much she hate black men cus we're so weak and stupid but she claims to still fukk with black men.


these women think they like having the man-like control in relationships.
then they get older, and look at how white men are buying their women cars, home remodels, vacations, jewelry. then they look at the filth they having laying up in their apartment like he's lower than dirt.

 

[Anothergirl]

But you don't know him like I do, he's going to change once Tervian is born.

@ Tervian

 

[Lavish]

i know a bad needs a father, but the question thats gone ignored is what does a man w/no skills, education or aspirations teach his children? to me, it's almost like they'd do more harm than good.

kid coming home from school and dads on madden smoking a blunt while mom is at work earning. is that the example we want to set? these problems will change when women actually begin to pick father material.

well see thast the problem. and thats how alot of men are responsible. they shouldnt have no aspirations, they shouldnt have no education and they shouldnt have no skills. they need to be a man, and be a positive influence on their childrens lies.

it sounds like you think women are solely responsible...and thats not what I meant by my post originally. it sounds like your basically letting men off the hook for being no good....

the problem is that there NO GOOD

is a kid better off without a no good father? possibly. by why cant he have a good father?