Black men, what do you wish Black women understood about your experience?

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If dudes focused more on improving themselves. They would realize it's not worth it to give another gender so much free space in their head.


Its all apart of nature . You are correct thoe it SHOULD be more men doing it but its not. Many don't know how .
 

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Too far...

Not really. I don't think someone who is not currently at their best [mentally] should be dating anyone. They need to work on that first. And since he holds a lot of anger towards black women, it's better that he is not dating one.
 
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Not really. I don't think someone who is not currently at their best [mentally] should be dating anyone. They need to work on that first. And since he holds a lot of anger towards black women, it's better that he is not dating one.


I hold a lot of anger towards black women??? You don't even know me :beli:. I'm not going to articulate that a ceartin mentality with black women since I was younger has sailed off. It dosent mean I'm going on a hate black women campaign. The coli is a strange place a times . You did exactly what I expected you to do thoe . I'm not going to type a dissertation about the mentality I had when I was young that changed as i matured . Y'all some weird nikka man :what:
 

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I think it makes sense logically. Basically the ability to accumulate surplus is actually what leads to inequality and unhealthy ideas that diverge from harmonious egalitarianism. That’s the very heart of white European hedonistic capitalism which seeks to place white males at the pinnacle.

Hunter gatherer tribes were egalitarian b/c it expands social networks resulting in less in-breeding...a problem whites always seem to have.

Studies on various cultures have actually supported this for years. Basically the farther removed u are from survival due to surplus, the more likely u are to engage in extreme excess such as thinking one gender should be solely in power—and the abuses of those circumstances therein.

Scholars for decades have linked agriculture and capitalism to the onset of patriarchy. Whereas earlier civilizations were far more egalitarian.
I think the current state of flux in the energy of the world represents us going thru growing pains in the procrss of reaching that harmonious balance once again.
@Benefited heres an article that goes a bit more in depth that was done years ago

Inequality: Why egalitarian societies died out

We’ve been bamboozled a lot.


This is the Europeans limited scope trying to bamboozle you,the fact they are off the frequency doesn't give them the insight or proper perspective. Ask yourself how would populations increase quickly to the point where expansion was neccessary for survival? Not just through imbreeding but through polygamy where men can get multiple women pregnant at a time. I'm willing to bet these Europeans are using their limited to perspective of polygamy today to assume the women are oppressed and have no special roles. Egaltarians were able to be hunter and gatherers because they could be,as monogomy kept their population smaller and more stabalized. Polygamy created the growing need for rapid expansion. Note that it doesn't say egaltarian groups were being wiped out,but that many of them were just being assimilated culturally and adopted the culture and polygamy as well,while some were conquered probably do to resistance. So what is the take away here that the European doesn't want you to see? its that polygamy actually creates strength by numbers.

Its a reason they have to demonize and even outlaw it,so that the economy and population can remain stabalized. They would never want a woke black people to wake up and realize the benefits of polygamy. Even in our current lost state if black people realized polygamy creates power,it would still be the #1 threat to the European. Even if polygamy can be considered oppressive to women,its a womans nature to do whats best for the tribe and the culture if she is able to understand the mission. Many black men today want black women to sacrifice and be submissive without having any type of plan or having anything established themselves. Our nature is to be polygamous,going against our nature and being egaltarians caused us to die out and be conquered by the Europeans who were not egaltarian in structure and women were still not equals. Your articles would be arguments against egalitarianism if they all died out anyway wouldn't they be? You are thinking full of hope and what humans could be instead of what reality is,this is why women shouldn't be leaders over men,your beautiful empathy:respect:. Black men have too much empathy as it is,our women are even worse.
 

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This thread had potential but it sadly devolved into childish back and forths.

A few men have already expressed my sentiment though. I don't need you to understand me, just respect me and my position. Trying to constantly challenge my manhood passively or directly will you get you bushed ASAP.
 
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