Black men who date out because they feel rejected by black women. Are they c00ns?

[Prynce]

I was having a conversation today with a acquaintance from highschool today. He is a black nerd in every sense of the word(300lb, virgin, glasses, Flat top with dandruff, can't dress, loves games and anime)
We started catching up because I haven't seen him since graduation night and then the convo turned towards the women I see on campus at my college. So I told him about all the beautiful sistas I see out there daily. Then after I said that he hit me with the then said he is gonna start focusing on white women because black women don't give him attention and are mean to him. I told him he was tripping and he started getting mad saying black women only want certain types of dudes and all have attitudes(forgetting the fact he is a kissless virgin ). At that point I got up told him peace and left.

It blows my mind that he would say those things when he hasn't even tried to better himself so he can appeal to women.

So my question is are these dudes who think like this c00ns?

 

[AtomicUse]

If he's gravitating to the people showing him love, I can't fault him for that.
If he's not getting love because he's a socially awkward lame with no game, I can't cosign that.

You got to get in where you fit in.

 

[gogogubari]

He's gonna face reality soon enough when those white women won;t want his dandruff-ridden ass, either. IDc what color you are, nobody likes a person whose personal hygiene isn't top priority.

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ETA: Unless they're nasty, as well.

 

[Prynce]

If he's gravitating to the people showing him love, I can't fault him for that.
If he's not getting love because he's a socially awkward lame with no game, I can't cosign that.

You got to get in where you fit in.

That's how I feel also. I can't knock him if he feels like he isn't getting any love.

 

[Malik1time]

If he's gravitating to the people showing him love, I can't fault him for that.
If he's not getting love because he's a socially awkward lame with no game, I can't cosign that.

You got to get in where you fit in.

i agree

 

[Prynce]

He's gonna face reality soon enough when those white women won;t want his dandruff-ridden ass, either. IDc what color you are, nobody likes a person whose personal hygiene isn't top priority.

 

[Bunchy Carter]

Another thread about black people dating outside of the race

 

[Prynce]

Another thread about black people dating outside of the race

Breh you know I don't participate in fukkery

 

[Malik1time]

i have several friends like that but no offence they look and act like lames.. instead of saying "Im staying away from black females cuz they dnt like me" how bout he say "I need to improve myself so black girls/all girls can see the best version of myself"

 

[cam>]

yes he's a c00n.

low self esteem and c00nery often go hand in hand.

the desperate search for validation from others, especially those who they feel have power/superiority

he should continue pursuing white women though.

the guy is sloppy and corny, if having a white mate will keep him from killing himself/make him feel better about himself, i support it.

 

[Prynce]

i have several friends like that but no offence they look and act like lames.. instead of saying "Im staying away from black females cuz they dnt like me" how bout he say "I need to improve myself so black girls/all girls can see the best version of myself"

He is a super lame to be honest

 

[King Poetic]

 

[At30wecashout]

It blows my mind that he would say those things when he hasn't even tried to better himself so he can appeal to women.

This part stood out to me. Realize you said " appeal to women" not appeal to black women.

If what he has going on currently actually attracts a woman, black or not, then he doesnt need to change. Get in where you fit in. If he gets a complex and begins to fault all black women, thats the only time to take issue with him. I remember getting made fun of around the block for my proclivities, but in the company of "others" I felt normal. Obviously I realized over time it had more to do with me being in a grimey area and me not being up on what was hot there that made me stand out as a square who didnt get play.

After hs, black women of all types were available and I started to find more that thought what I was doing was cool, and I didnt need to change myself. Now he is a fat mawfukka so he probably wears some self-loathing on his sleeve, but instead of trying to call him c00n, why not educate this fool on why he is making himself a niche with how he is carrying himself.

If he is about that pawglife, cool, but if he desires sistas, he is still going to have some of the same difficulty he would with white chicks. You cant be borderline gross and wonder why people aint fukking with you.

 

[Will Ross]

A c00n is someone that gets paid to play up a stereotype.

 

[Chichi Manietzsche]

He's gonna face reality soon enough when those white women won't want his dandruff-ridden ass, either. IDc what color you are, nobody likes a person whose personal hygiene isn't top priority.

>300lbs with terrible hygiene
>wonders why black women reject him
>believes white women will overlook his 'shortcomings'