Black woman calls out single men

[Bigblackted4]

She said the key words “the right woman” that’s the key finding the one that will support you ain’t won’t allow you to fail.

 

[Shadow King]

But what does that have to do with men? If you want to settle down before 35 and have a family, there are plenty of men who want to do it. Literally hundreds of guys on this site who do anything to have a woman laying up with them.

The man of means in this scenario (if his mission is accomplished) isn't going to marry them anyway. They are going to marry the 25 year old. Just being real.

The man who will marry them at 25 probably does not fit into their boxes of what his career path should be, or how he looks. Like you said, plenty of men who will want to lay up under them all the time. That man probably isn't ambitious enough for them and they'll eventually resent that he falls short of the provider role. Or he is ambitious, and may be willing to have one steady girlfriend, but his career path is too time-demanding so the women can't handle the lack of attention and "quality time". Most men are not in their overall primes (appearance+resources) in their 20s. But the vast majority of women cannot sacrifice that attention for long-term security.

Like you said, the men of means (the men THEY want) will be 35-ish marrying the 25 y/o. Younger, less baggage, more honeymoon phase time before jumping into child-rearing. The May-December romance isn't going anywhere time soon. For most men in 2017, unless you're actor-type handsome or willing to "holler" at 4/5 women every day while young, your "success" with women will not be better under 25/pre-career stability than over 25/career stability.

But that depends on what each man's view of success is. For cats like me young and starving, being able to maintain explore romantic/sexual options deep into my 30s and perhaps 40s means I've seen exponential development and my options are reflecting that I'm doing what supposed to be outside of that aspect of life. For dudes who's had females gratifying them since 13, they've had 1000 women already so a wife is their sign of development and maturity.

The thing is even amongst the top 20% of men who are 30+, their will be this divide. So some dudes get 32 and want to put a ring on a finger, while others want to play the field. And women in that same age range can't deal with because they're on a more stringent biological schedule. Men can work the clock, women are trying to beat the clock.

 

[Spotja]

This. Men and Women have to make the best choices for themselves, find people who are okay with their choice and stop taking advice from Twitter.

Or TheColi

 

[DaRealness]

It's funny how men listened to women when they told them they were broke and weren't good enough and felt "threatened" by successful women and they should come back when they get their shyt together. Now that dudes are doing just that and seeing success, now all of a sudden its . LOL FOH.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

She didn't even say anything offensive. Just offering another viewpoint. I know some of you all are allergic to that but cut her some slack. She didn't call anyone dusty, ashy, or any other gender baiting terms. Not in the OP anyway. You can do a lot with a good woman by your side. Keyword; good.

 

[Da King]

She didn't even say anything offensive. Just offering another viewpoint. I know some of you all are allergic to that but cut her some slack. She didn't call anyone dusty, ashy, or any other gender baiting terms. Not in the OP anyway. You can do a lot with a good woman by your side. Keyword; good.

Coli filled with bitter single men

 

[thatrapsfan]

Who is this person? Why should we care? This thread will 20 pages by 10 o clock full of ""

Congrats bruh

Well you were right.