Black woman on LSA condemns the baby mama culture

[BrandonBanks]

If you're already a baby mama, then this isn't directed to you. You've already done it, it's too late. This is directed to AA women who AREN'T baby mamas but see nothing wrong with possibly becoming one.

After seeing how this played out for a lot of other AA women....who in their right mind would continue to willingly do it? Have you realized YET that having a baby out of wedlock by these dudes is NOT a good idea?

I don't even understand the reasoning behind it, but regardless, if a man thinks you're good enough to carry his baby but not good enough to carry his last name, what does that tell you?

I used to somewhat sympathize, but i no longer have sympathy for women who think it's cool to have kids out of wedlock in 2017. Like damn bytch, how many signs, hints and clues do you need?

And if you willingly join the Baby Mama Club, then don't come online complaining about the dating pool of men out there either. You had a child by a man you weren't even married to, then you expect a handsome, childless successful man to come along and risk getting cursed out by your baby daddy or take care of your kid?

What woman in her right mind would want to go through 9 months of pregnancy, labor and painful childbirth for a man who didn't even take you down to the courthouse AT LEAST? And idc about groans, so you can go HAM on the Groan button all you want.

AA women: why would you carry a man's child before carrying his last name?

She pissed off a lot of those baby mamas on LSA but she's right

 

[newarkhiphop]

chatty patty ass thread

 

[Hungerpain]

 

[ultraflexed]

I agree with this message

 

[Elle Driver]

chatty patty ass thread

How?

 

[Geek Nasty]

I think the reasoning is thinking they can trap a man who otherwise wouldn't marry them. Maybe she gets that church-raised breh who thinks he has to marry her. Even if he isn't on board, she's got you for 18 years and you HAVE to deal with her ass to pay those bills. Some women are so thirsty for that upgrade they'll do it.

I've seen a few women in taht situation with brehs who couldn't stand them except for the p*ssy. I don't get why makes someone attractive as a mate who makes it clear they don't want to fukk with you just fukk you.

EDIT: and lets nto pretend this is a "black" issue.

 

[Elle Driver]

Also, a baby won't change a man which is what these women think having the baby will accomplish.

 

[ahdsend]

What woman in her right mind would want to go through 9 months of pregnancy, labor and painful childbirth for a man who didn't even take you down to the courthouse AT LEAST?

we gotta shake off the boomers self destructive behaviors...

 

[BrandonBanks]

chatty patty ass thread

true.

the chick deserved a thread though. she's one of the few that spoke the truth

 

[lowkey0z]

all facts

 

[Somewhere For Me]

true.

the chick deserved a thread though. she's one of the few that spoke the truth

Those kind of threads get made all the damn time on there. There is nothing new or ground breaking about it.

LSA is filled with "I'm better than you so I'm gonna shame you in every way possible" types.

It's quite tiring and I say this as someone who prefers children AFTER marriage.

 

[scarlxrd]

Broads in that thread deflecting like

IN

 

[Somewhere For Me]

AA women: why would you carry a man's child before carrying his last name?

^^^This individual makes a great point.

Baby mama/single parent homes just isn't an AA issue and I simply get tired of people using it as a smear campaign against AAs...

EDIT: I linked directly to the post made by a user in response to OP of that thread.

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

Dem hoes see that as being preachy

They already bashing her calling her a bible thumper

Smh..these cumbuckets just live for self destruction

And don't mind carrying their children down that path

Look at Chicago yall

 

[Hungerpain]

AA women: why would you carry a man's child before carrying his last name?

^^^This individual makes a great point.

Baby mama/single parent homes just isn't an AA issue and I simply get tired of people using it as a smear campaign against AAs...

EDIT: I linked directly to the post made by a user in response to OP of that thread.

How is deflecting to "but but other people do it too stop shaming us"
a great point?

 

[BrandonBanks]

Baby mama/single parent homes just isn't an AA issue and I simply get tired of people using it as a smear campaign against AAs...

EDIT: I linked directly to the post made by a user in response to OP of that thread.

AA women do have a higher OOW rate, but even if it was the same as everyone elses, that makes it okay? Justify having babies by nikkas you're not married to just because "they're" doing it too?

What was specifically wrong about what she said? Nothing