"Black women are obsessed with street dudes"- Brehette

[Illuminatos]

This is a myth.

We can’t have honest conversations about the community when yall play games like this.

 

[Problematic Pat]

No women of substance are attracted to street dudes after age 30. I just haven’t seen it. Only women with self esteem issues still link up with those types after a certain age.

It’s just like us brehs…we stop dealing with emotionally unhinged women/hoodrats after a certain age too, unless we have issues ourselves.

Just how the game go.

We've all seen the street nikkaz pull up to the job and pick up the corporate chick or the Doctors office to pick up the PA or NP in her own car.

 

[Problematic Pat]

 

[King Poetic]

It’s been that way in our community since that late 80s

Just look at the single mother stats and it will show u the results

But at the same time brothers who constantly complain about that give it up… so many other sisters around different countries u can link up with, latinas, Asians and white women out here

All this crying about these broads wanting thugs is ridiculous…at least you know your not wanted and u don’t have to put up with bullshyt

 

[Problematic Pat]

Any guy who cares about this, is not a man. If you care enough to be asking what type of guys a girl likes, you are lost. You shouldn’t give a fucck. She need to be asking herself if she’s good enough for you.

If all the dudes a chick you have interest in dated were street nikkaz and you were the total opposite she's really that not into you. Majority of chicks have a type. You see this a lot with swirlers/divestors. Dated a bunch of street dudes get mad because the same dudes refuse to be molded into Avon Barksdale with a PHD so they find the nerdiest white dude and get on social media screaming to the mountain tops about how he opened her car door for her and no Black man she's dated has ever done that.

 

[Problematic Pat]

It’s been that way in our community since that late 80s

Just look at the single mother stats and it will show u the results

But at the same time brothers who constantly complain about that give it up… so many other sisters around different countries u can link up with, latinas, Asians and white women out here

All this crying about these broads wanting thugs is ridiculous…at least you know your not wanted and u don’t have to put up with bullshyt

Nah just pointing out what the Umarsexuals doesn't think exists.

 

[Selena]

Well I must be a damn unicorn then

 

[Problematic Pat]

Well I must be a damn unicorn then

It's obviously not 100%.

 

[Shadow King]

It’s been that way in our community since that late 80s

Just look at the single mother stats and it will show u the results

But at the same time brothers who constantly complain about that give it up… so many other sisters around different countries u can link up with, latinas, Asians and white women out here

All this crying about these broads wanting thugs is ridiculous…at least you know your not wanted and u don’t have to put up with bullshyt

It's not crying about them, it's a response. I think at this point more black men than not, are open to dealing with other women. But we've been scrutinized or had our identity questioned by black women and their lapdogs for decades. Only in the last 5-10 years have we used the bit of voice that we do have to explain our position or defend our choices.

 

[Bar Razor]

There’s a real difference between women being attracted to non-conforming, rebellious men and what we see in our community, where criminality itself is fetishized.

No other group thinks going to prison is a rite of passage into manhood for young men, lol. We're heavily invested in racist black brute archetypes that link criminality and danger to masculinity.

That’s not the same as the ‘nice guy vs. Bad boys"

Yup. Malcolm was the ultimate rebel, willing to buck his organization for wrongdoing despite the personal cost, willing to go against the US government, and willing to die for his beliefs Now THAT is a rebel. Not someone ducking bullets on the block and being a neighborhood terrorist.

And there's also the glorification of these archetypes in the media for the past 30+ years via hip hop. Making it into some kind of commercial commodity ala Coke or Mcdonald's.

 

[Selena]

It's obviously not 100%.

Yeah but yall trying to act like at least most bw think like this so my response still applies

 

[keon]

That video is for all the cornball brothas & sistas of the world.

I hope y’all find your joy & happiness, even if it’s with a chick that was ran through by the hood dudes or some corny white broad, you people deserve happiness too and I hope you find it, peace be unto you my corny kings & queens

 

[RamsayBolton]

the hell is the tea app

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

The vast majority of black women I know are with regular black men

 

[Shadow King]

Yeah but yall trying to act like at least most bw think like this so my response still applies

Most do at varying degrees. So yes go polish your horn