How does he leave her if it’s a divorce?
Divorces should also happen majority when the persons are prepared to do that too.
And don’t women initiate majority of the divorces too, right?
What I’m saying is that you see a lot of single mothers complaining about how hard it is to take care of kids alone like it’s other people that put them there.
No one told you to have kids.. then have them with someone you now consider a “deadbeat”… then get divorced (if ever married)… then go through whatever you deal with alone. And a lot of these people haven’t even been married in the first place before they decided to have children. TF we supposed to do?
And cool if that’s what they’re telling each other but that’s not what’s happening
If he cheats, she may want to divorce him. The man she’s with doesn’t appear to be a deadbeat at all, but there’s nothing stopping him from leaving but free will, and from the looks of their home, they are not balling.
However, I agree that a lot of single moms were with men who weren’t that responsible in the first place, nor was he husband material, especially if he has kids by other women. Some of them weren’t even in relationships, and were side pieces. But some women don’t believe in abortion, so they don’t do it. Blame religion, and the black church, which is full of single mothers. Single mothers are raising daughters, and not emphasizing the dangers of following in their footsteps, because their egos are too big to admit they made bad choices. They’re raising sons who see them doing everything on their own, so the boys have the mentality that kids don’t need fathers, they only need mothers. I’ve heard several black men say this nonsense. The worst part is, they say they didn’t have a dad, and they turned out fine.
