Yes I said it. No I don’t know you personally. No I don’t care if it hurts your feelings or makes you feel insulted.
The first time I was told that I had sexist and misogynistic tendencies was around this time last year. I was outraged, I couldn’t believe someone would call me that (kind of like a white person acts when you call them racist). I even asked a few of my homies, it went something like this.
Me: “Hey bro, you don’t think I’m sexist do you?”
Homie: “What? Hell naw man.”
Me: “Cool, I didn’t think so… Keesha just trippin bro.”
The fact I asked multiple of my guy friends if I was sexist or misogynistic should let you know how blind I was to my toxic words and actions.
