Born or Bred: Are you born gay or is it a learned behavior?

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Both. Some people are born with it and others develop it through traumtic experiences.

 

[Knicksman20]

Yeah I said it multiple times that yeah sure in the most literal sense its a choice in the same way that you choose not to get up from this computer right now and not murder the first person you see. But killing someone randomly is probably not something you would do or is invading your thoughts, so you aren't really choosing not to do it you just aren't gonna. If fukking nikkas is on your mind but you try to suppress those thoughts as soon as they come in, or if you can see yourself fukking a nikka but choose females and even if you never indulge you are at least somewhat gay. Nobody who is actually repulsed by the same gender is going to fukk them, no matter how much they told you they thought it was gross.

We already agree on most of these points bruh. You know there’s levels to this. All of us are consciously or subconsciously making decisions all day to engage or not engage in certain activities. For instance the committing murder aspect of what we touched on. Your brain (consciously or subconsciously) steers you away from those thoughts & patterns. That’s still a choice you’re making. Now if someone was to do harm to you or your family what choice would you make? You’re gonna stop the threat by any means necessary? Just like you choose not to entertain homosexual thoughts or activity. But like I said there are some that choose to & follow through with the actual act. Saying it’s not is a cop out & removes the act of freewill that person exercises (which is their right to) to go down that path

 

[Chrishaune]

I think it starts out as a thought and those that accept those thoughts and dwell on them are more likely to be...just like men/women that dwell on sex can/will become sex addicts. It's harder for some to get rid of those thoughts and they are more susceptible...

 

[JQ Legend]

The same way I didn't have to "learn" to like women, they don't have to either....They just know. I remember the first girl I looked at like THAT in 6th grade, too young to even really understand what it was.

If u ain't see your first cute girl till 6th grade u might have some splaining' to do

 

[Bigblackted4]

Both I think some people are born with more feminine energy than others but I also think environment and events can lead somebody to being gay

 

[Skooby]

I think homosexuality is a brain disorder that occurs somewhere between the stages of fetus and toddler age.

 

[Skooby]

I think homosexuality is a brain disorder that occurs somewhere between the stages of fetus and toddler age.