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More often than not I tend to take that L.
Exactly. Then when they get older and the options they had in their 20’s dry up they are genuinely surprised when they can’t get the same results.Women stay with “ain’t shyt” men all the time, then expect others to clean up after them.
So I don’t think the standards for men are that high, unless you’re unattractive.
convo I had today with a old gf. She has two kids.
Chick - I just want something real. I want what I want.
Me - what is real to you? Things not working out with your dude?
Chick - We just broke up. He said the same thing you said years ago when I tried to move us past the friends with benefits stage. He said he wants to make his own family.
Me - Does he have kids?
Chick - Nope. Just like you no kids.
Me - well can you blame him. You have two kids and your tubes are tied. You can’t even offer him kids. All you can offer him is to take care of the two kids you had with a guy working part time at a movie theater. The guys you want. What do THEY WANT?
Chick - uhhhhhh.
( long ass pause ). Sex???
Me -
You never even thought about that before have you? Your a grown woman with 2 kids and never actually thought about what a man would want from you? 
Chick -

why is she dating men with no kids and her tubes are tied?
But but I don’t know how I would deal with the whole dynamic of a baby momma possible being in the picture. 

