Brehette calls out women who didn't grow up in the hood for chasing hood dudes

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There are simply more 'futures' in the dating pool...it's funny how yall pretend this is not the case...

Nobody said that isn’t the case. There are more Brehettes with fat asses in the dating pool than Brehettes with flat asses. Given the choice most brehs would pick a Brehette with a fat ass. It’s the same with brehs who are like Future vs brehs who are like Grant Hill. There are Brehettes who would chose a Grant Hill, but most 17-35 gravitate to the Future’s.
 

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Why is it that whenever someone likes a certain type of Breh it’s called a “fetish” lol?
Non-Black women likes a breh and it’s cause they’re “fetishizing” him. Now if a non-hood chick likes a hood dude it’s a “fetish.”
Because if black men are desired for any reason, we’re being “objectified”. Just another way to dikk police us. We’re not allowed be attractive to any group without some false caveat attached.
 

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People don’t even know what a hood dude is smh.

She is talking about a street nikka. A street nikka and a hood nikka ain’t the same thing.

Plenty of good hood dudes. They are hood cause they just happen to grow up there. A street dude is in the streets.
Exactly. I was raised in the hood but stayed far away from the streets. And as soon as I made some decent money, I move as far away from the hood as possible. :mjlol:
 

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A lot sistas who grew up in the burbs might have identity crisis if they chase after the hood street nikkas because they feel if they stay in their own area where the guys isn’t that way they assume their blackness is gone

Similar to the suburban nikkas who want to portray theystreet image so they blackness isn’t questioned

Some black folks got fukked up mines

Look how rich nikkas like chris brown and lil wayne who never was in the streets become millionaires and now they want to represent bloods:mjlol: instead of enjoying a carefree lifestyle without the stress of loser’s around
 

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I’m talking IRL too. Brehettes 17-35 gravitate more towards brehs who are like Future than brehs who are like Grant Hill as far as personality and how they carry themselves.
I work in a building with hundreds of people in that age range breh. I am telling you what I see every day not some shyt I heard about or what I THINK is going on.

There is one chick who literally fukked the whole building before she found one of those guys dumb enough to get her pregnant. She literally tried everyone. She didn't care. She just wanted a man.

The street dudes are the easiest men to get. They have no sexual discipline so OF COURSE women run towards them because most women can only offer sex so they want someone they think they can control sexually. It's stupid but most people are lazy and go for what is easy.

Again, they try to big up these dudes on the back end to save face.

But they DO NOT prefer these guys.

The same guy I spoke about earlier has had 3 of my females employees (we don't work for the same company) try him. I don't even have that many. He is tall, average looking, average build, keeps his hair real short or shaped up because it will grow into big curls. He has a very calm demeanor and is the manager at his company. Women throw themselves at him.

One of my supervisors has a huge crush on him and teases him whenever she can. He is so completely not interested so she deals with street dudes instead. She wants the clean dude but he doesn't want her so she goes with what is easier.
 

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I think she missed the fun, spontaneous aspect that typical street dukes provide

Its always something. Its always a function or activity or general street shyt that some women like to be around. Including the cheating

Its a phase anyway. Rarely is there a ambitious women with goals who stays long enough to even witness the raids, shootouts, and/or death.
 

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I work in a building with hundreds of people in that age range breh. I am telling you what I see every day not some shyt I heard about or what I THINK is going on.

There is one chick who literally fukked the whole building before she found one of those guys dumb enough to get her pregnant. She literally tried everyone. She didn't care. She just wanted a man.

The street dudes are the easiest men to get. They have no sexual discipline so OF COURSE women run towards them because most women can only offer sex so they want someone they think they can control sexually. It's stupid but most people are lazy and go for what is easy.

Again, they try to big up these dudes on the back end to save face.

But they DO NOT prefer these guys.

The same guy I spoke about earlier has had 3 of my females employees (we don't work for the same company) try him. I don't even have that many. He is tall, average looking, average build, keeps his hair real short or shaped up because it will grow into big curls. He has a very calm demeanor and is the manager at his company. Women throw themselves at him.

One of my supervisors has a huge crush on him and teases him whenever she can. He is so completely not interested so she deals with street dudes instead. She wants the clean dude but he doesn't want her so she goes with what is easier.

I’m firmly in that age group and went to a prominent HBCU. I also went to private schools and know a lot of women in that age group from other races. I’m speaking from what I’ve personally observed and experienced.
 
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Forgive her. Many of our proverbs 31 angels were sheltered and kept away from certain riff raff:respect:
I've bought in.... :banderas:


Far as this thread is concerned street/hood dudes simply are more masculine generally speaking. At least as far as what has been painted as masculine by black men. If non hood/street dudes want it to be another way,they will have to change it in a war for the conscience of our women and black youth.


So far i just see nikkas crying from their cubicles,basements,churches,animae festivals from their computers.


Hood dudes still got it sewed up,although righteous black men are steady climbing if you watch the headlines.
:mjlol: :mjlol:
 

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I’m firmly in that age group and went to a prominent HBCU. I also went to private schools and know a lot of women in that age group from other races. I’m speaking from what I’ve personally observed and experienced.
Me too big whoop.

On top of that I have grown up experience and actually managed people to the extent I don't need to reference high school or college to prove my point.

But you're so stuck on being right you're not even comprehending what I'm saying.

You're making a surface level observation, and I'm giving you a detailed explanation on why that behavior occurs.

We're not even disagreeing but you're too busy trying to have a dikk swinging contest to see that.

All that school you'd like you'd learn better analytical skills. There are usually REASONS behind certain behaviors but I guess having a conversation beyond stating the obvious is too much to ask.

Did you go to FAMU?
 

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Me too big whoop.

On top of that I have grown up experience and actually managed people to the extent I don't need to reference high school or college to prove my point.

But you're so stuck on being right you're not even comprehending what I'm saying.

You're making a surface level observation, and I'm giving you a detailed explanation on why that behavior occurs.

We're not even disagreeing but you're too busy trying to have a dikk swinging contest to see that.

All that school you'd like you'd learn better analytical skills. There are usually REASONS behind certain behaviors but I guess having a conversation beyond stating the obvious is too much to ask.

Did you go to FAMU?

No I didn’t go to FAMU. Why are you getting all in your feelings? I just said I’m speaking from what I’ve experienced and observed as a young Black man. And I stand by my observations and experiences both personally and from other young Black men I know who include Grant Hill personality types and Future personality types. I agree there are reasons behind certain behaviors and culturally a lot of young Black women gravitate to certain types of men more often than other races of young women.
 

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lol don’t know what you talking about. Plenty of dudes from the hood that ain’t criminals. A street guys is a criminal. Hence the term in the streets.

A good example of a hood dude is Lamar Jackson. He is a hood guy no doubt but he ain’t a crook and never was.

You just have a weird hating bias. Maybe the hood brehs got the girls u always wanted?
And these "criminals" don't reside in the "hood", do crime in the "hood"? Aren't they repping a "hood"? The same "hood" you claim to be from?

i don't know Lamar Jsckson,. don't know what he has or hasn't done.

Hating bias? Nah, you just confused . "
 
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