Brehettes explain why they became the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc baby mama

[LiveFromLondon]

Baddest chick round my way had this one cacs fourth kid and I am certain shes atleast baby mama number 3. To boot this chick would put chicks like Lori Harvey, Rihanna et al to shame and shes had no cosmetic surgery like them. Boggles my mind she put herself in that position but at the same time not surprised. Also any man thats wifing any of these chicks is willingly inviting another mans dysfunction in to his household

 

[Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha]

Wow, women are terrible at making choices

 

[ZoeGod]

This goes to show why strong fathers are needed to have a say in the dating process for daughters. Because women in general pick poor partners and suck at dating. This is why so many women nowadays are jaded, angry at man and are bitter.
Secondly based by genetics about 40% of men of all time have procreated with 90% of women of all time since humanity been here 100,000 years ago. Which means there is a certain segment of men women are attracted to. A lot of baby daddies we see in our community fit an avatar that women want. He is either tall, or in good shape, or has a dominate confident personality, has a certain edge with etc. However the biggest characteristic missing is he able to provide. The government provides services for these women which gives them the opportunity to be able to do this. If there was no government vehicles to provide them aid I don’t think it would stop. Matter fact it would likely be worsened.
Places in South America and the Caribbean that has no child support or family court you still see b*stard baby making. I read somewhere that in Venezuela some big time gang lord in Caracas has 10 kids from 8 women. Same thing whether in Brazil, Colombia, DR, Jamaica etc. The thing is the women lay down with these drug lords because they take care of them financially. So in short even if the govt decided to stop all programs and end family court you still will have b*stard baby making.

 

[newarkhiphop]

where's that thread that said 18% of men have children with 80% of the women are something like that

got deleted

 

[Deman]

I know 4 hoes have my baby rn if i asked

nikkas be telling em for generations dont be no baby mama be a nikka wife first like damn

 

[audemarzz]

The problem is we are attacking women instead of understanding why and how...

This is why the alpha male youtuber gets rich because he knows a man's ego can't take a humbling...

"WE" have been attacking men about it for 40 years via mainstream media/black female centered media outlet, black female book clubs, intersectional feminism, female centered gov't programs, and the general lie of "nikkas ain't shyt/deadbeat daddy/etc" being part of the lexicon.
The "not shyt bytch/crackhead mom" of the 90s got scrubbed out of the collective memory, but yeah - let's talk about a man's ego.
Let's also talk about billions of dollars being thrown to that particular subgroup's (actually gov't sponsored) NGOs, 501c3s, and programs that rock, and them being the actual community "leaders".
Let's also talk about the lie-propaganda spreading so far and wide, articles had to be written to counteract the propaganda.
It surely didn't originate in the white community, they had to signal boost SOMEBODY.
They're dragging out the "absent black fathers" myth again. Can we give it a rest? | Opinion

When you have 20+ forms of post and pre conception birth control, available to YOU AND YOU ONLY, the onus lies upon YOU.
"but a man"
"manly man"
"a man is SUPPOSED TO"


let's not. That record is scratched up.

 

[360dagod]

"WE" have been attacking men about it for 40 years via mainstream media/black female centered media outlet, black female book clubs, intersectional feminism, female centered gov't programs, and the general lie of "nikkas ain't shyt/deadbeat daddy/etc" being part of the lexicon.
The "not shyt bytch/crackhead mom" of the 90s got scrubbed out of the collective memory, but yeah - let's talk about a man's ego.
Let's also talk about billions of dollars being thrown to that particular subgroup's (actually gov't sponsored) NGOs, 501c3s, and programs that rock, and them being the actual community "leaders".
Let's also talk about the lie-propaganda spreading so far and wide, articles had to be written to counteract the propaganda.
It surely didn't originate in the white community, they had to signal boost SOMEBODY.
They're dragging out the "absent black fathers" myth again. Can we give it a rest? | Opinion

When you have 20+ forms of post and pre conception birth control, available to YOU AND YOU ONLY, the onus lies upon YOU.
"but a man"
"manly man"
"a man is SUPPOSED TO"


let's not. That record is scratched up.

If nikkas were getting the results they wanted from women, they wouldn't give a fukk about none of this shyt...

 

[audemarzz]

If nikkas were getting the results they wanted from women, they wouldn't give a fukk about none of this shyt...

That's not what you were talking about at first and that has absolutely nothing to do with the premise of this thread, nikka.
These are serious community issues, not "can I put my dikk in this p*ssy for fun right now" issues, we've already bypassed that several times.

 

[Edub]

@L2014 …. That Avi tho

 

[HabitualChiller]

The only understandable response was the first one.

The dude that has one kid with the baby mom not in the picture at all AND he's a great dad? That one seems normal and a smart decision by the woman, but I'd hate to have her as a step-mom.

 

[Luke Cage]

What i took from this is women think if you already a good father, you wil be a good father for them too. Low key not terrible logic, you can at least be sure he won't be some deadbeat dad that will abandon you and your kids....

but (and this was my second observation) you have to have low self esteem to be willing to settle for just sharing the limited time and attention of man with other women in order to accept that bare minimum, instead of trusting yourself to build a family with someone who can give you their full and undivided attention. and they are accepting this knowing full well they are probably gonna end up sharing him with even more women in the future too.

low key sad, but practical if you accept that you are a loser who can't do much better.

 

[WesCrook]

I dont think being a 3rd/4th BM is natural. At that point women have to ask themselves if the man actually cares about being a family man or if he just wants to bust a nut and dip

They are also screwed when it comes to child support. Even if they take him to court, they'll end up with about $75 per month tops, because BM #1 is getting a much bigger cut.

It's not even across the board.

She's better off just getting what she can from him

 

[Reality]

What i took from this is women think if you already a good father, you wil be a good father for them too. Low key not terrible logic, you can at least be sure he won't be some deadbeat dad that will abandon you and your kids....

but (and this was my second observation) you have to have low self esteem to be willing to settle for just sharing the limited time and attention of man with other women in order to accept that bare minimum, instead of trusting yourself to build a family with someone who can give you their full and undivided attention. and they are accepting this knowing full well they are probably gonna end up sharing him with even more women in the future too.

low key sad, but practical if you accept that you are a loser who can't do much better.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Stupid