Brehettes, why don't y'all approach men that you like?

[old_timer]

The most a woman needs to do is eye contact,
Maybe smile, or hello

if she has special circumstances, she might have to put out a disclaimer
(workplace or shared social groups raises the stakes for the approach-er)
But really, very rare..
A smile or eye contact is enough 99.9%

If the man is interested, he can quickly read the situation and see a mutual interest

I think women miss out more on being unavailable to approaches
If you are always surrounded by a gang of friends.. always on your phone.. deep reading a book.. face buried in a screen.. always have headphones on etc
That is more problematic than anything

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Just posted this on another thread but this is my issue with women and this whole approaching thing.

It's a bunch of mixed messages. If you read a women forum about whether they approach men or the the majority of the responses are how it's a man's job to hunt and persue what he wants. Basically code for I'm too chickenshyt to say anything so he should just know.

In that same breath they'll post shyt like this, where I simple good morning or smile are seen as "harassment". Like I said you're going to have a bunch of frogs for every prince he who shoots his shot and if youre wondering why that prince is staring at you but not saying anything well he probably doesn't want to be another one of the thirsty harassers that tried to talk to you. Can't have your cake and eat it too.

 

[Shadow King]

You know what @BlackPearl The Empress means lol cmon now


Our names are similar

I was here first

 

[Shadow King]

The most a woman needs to do is eye contact,
Maybe smile, or hello

if she has special circumstances, she might have to put out a disclaimer
(workplace or shared social groups raises the stakes for the approach-er)
But really, very rare..
A smile or eye contact is enough 99.9%

If the man is interested, he can quickly read the situation and see a mutual interest

I think women miss out more on being unavailable to approaches
If you are always surrounded by a gang of friends.. always on your phone.. deep reading a book.. face buried in a screen.. always have headphones on etc
That is more problematic than anything

Eye contact doesn't really mean anything.

 

[Shadow King]

It's very initiating conversation with men. Really.
Good thing I don't have to do it often or I'd hyperventilate & faint, lol.

Like someone stated upthread, it makes a woman more gracious when declining advances...even if you may be the 6th chick he's hollered at in that hour .

There's a few moments when I've been brave enough to initiate first - Something on my mind/chest or I felt very compelled to compliment an outstanding quality in a guy. Other than that, it's for me.

This is typically enough.

And hi Libra

 

[*Angel*]

@Lamar Givens


-@KOOL-AID neg was theoretical.
He was not really pressed about what I said.

Your only statement as to why you rejected one guy as opposed to the other two appeared to be based on a superficial value.

- How is is not being sexually satisfied superficial?

Did those other relationships work out with the men who satisfied your penis length requirements?

-Define "work out" bc this makes no sense if you mean did they last a lifetime?? No, but I don't go into relationships expecting forever. Im expecting an honest experience from a man and it goes where it goes as long as I'm satisfied with what we got.

Are you single now?
- I am but that's irrelevant

Is penis size the the only requirement/barometer your capable of in finding and judging what a quality man is?
I’m only asking because in your post that’s what you seemed to emphasize.



- I put myself out there to get a mans attention, succeeded, we bonded enough to consider a relationship together and all you got out of what I said is that I emphasized his penis size bc I didn't want to sexually unsatisfied? Thats on you if that's solely what you focused on.

 

[intruder]

B/c men will take it even it they aren't interested.

What's wrong with that?
It's a cold world out there. Always take what you CAN get

I've only ever hit on one guy in my entire life and I made myself look like such a loser

DOUBLE STANDARD!!!

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

I managed to get over it after a while. I feel like I'm even more nice now to men who approach me, it takes a lot of courage to do it.

U can approach me I'm nice

 

[Rozay Oro]

I’ve approached only two women in my single dating life.

1 of them I successfully had sex with and the other played hard to get and I eventually stop pursuing.

I learned early in the game that if you are handsome/attracive women will make the first move.

However, when a woman does make her move you have to be observant and pick up on clues very quickly.

For example, most of the women I have successfully slept with gave the subtle clue of finding a way to inadvertently touch me throughout our conversations.

Others would invade my personal space even after I created distance between us.

When a woman constantly messes with her hair or is always making sure her facial appearance is on deck, etc.

The clues are there. You just have to pick up on them.

As I said earlier this is only true for men who are extremely handsome or attractive.

will never know

 

[Lady.Libra.]

This is typically enough.

And hi Libra

Hey there Mr. Shadow...

 

[Lo-Co]

It's very initiating conversation with men. Really.
Good thing I don't have to do it often or I'd hyperventilate & faint, lol.

Like someone stated upthread, it makes a woman more gracious when declining advances...even if you may be the 6th chick he's hollered at in that hour .

There's a few moments when I've been brave enough to initiate first - Something on my mind/chest or I felt very compelled to compliment an outstanding quality in a guy. Other than that, it's for me.