Brehs and Brehettes: What do you do after the honeymoon phase is over?

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In this instant gratification era you find a new person to give you that dosage of novelty and the tingles, butterflies etc.

However if you are traditional etc. You realize relationships take work, will have dry spells and you try and spice it up to get out of the routkne , communication, dedication, date nights etc. Etc.




Or you just hop on tinder :manny: and network
 

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However if you are traditional etc. You realize relationships take work, will have dry spells and you try and spice it up to get out of the routkne , communication, dedication, date nights etc. Etc.

Very true.
They take lots of work, mane.
I be having rough patches as well.
But communication is very key.
And the sheer will to know you're willing to deal with the hard times.














But sometimes I be missing my POF days of networking and smashing and/or head on the first night :noah:

The chase and accomplishment was :wow:




But then I remember those lonely days in bed....those days of being the third wheel....those days of my girl having a new bf :demonic:

And then I realize I'm happy and wouldn't want it any other way :obama:

She ride for me like no other :lawd:
 

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Honeymoon stage is the goat because they are selling you the perfect image, no fights no nagging, no other guys in the picture. She will do and say anything, you think you won the lottery.

Then once it ends usually after 3-5 months, the fights, the nagging, the exes appear, her personality changes. You realize now why she was single, you thought you had a diamond but it was just quartz

:to:
 

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One good women >>>>>>


There will always be whores there won't always be quality single women

Very true.
They take lots of work, mane.
I be having rough patches as well.
But communication is very key.
And the sheer will to know you're willing to deal with the hard times.














But sometimes I be missing my POF days of networking and smashing and/or head on the first night :noah:

The chase and accomplishment was :wow:




But then I remember those lonely days in bed....those days of being the third wheel....those days of my girl having a new bf :demonic:

And then I realize I'm happy and wouldn't want it any other way :obama:

She ride for me like no other :lawd:
 

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Prolong the honey moon phase by being emotionally/physically distant.

Once the honey moon phase ends i'll shake things up by ignoring her for weeks at a time.
 
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