How do you get them dikkmatized like that? Any advice? Please put me on game.
Everyone has their own tricks, but this works for me in relationships/situationships/one night stands/etc
Be consistent. When you say you gonna do something, do it.
Find out how your girl likes to be loved (love language test)
Early on in the relationship, Get to know her. Talk about insecurities she has, dreams, etc. most of the time you don’t even have to share yourself, just let her talk and listen for key words. Bring it up occasionally so she knows you remember
Go on dates. Doesn’t have to be expensive, could be a park picnic, but look for events that are cheap/free and surprise them once or twice a month. It doesn’t take much.
Try to Be your best self. Whether it’s in your career, drive, fitness, or intelligence, have something that separates yourself from everyone else. You don’t have to have everything figured out, but have something. I didn’t even have a license when I was dealing with my first girl, yet she still was submissive
If you put in a little effort, she will match your energy and then some. Of course this doesn’t work for every woman, some are too vapid/damaged beyond repair, but if she’s sensible to a point, she will realize what type of guy she has, and will do whatever to keep that man around.
Of course keep her satisfied in bed. Get to know her likes/dislikes, and if you down to do them, go all in. Taoist thrust is a good beginners technique if you need it. Learn to not be so stiff in the hips (pause) having a wide range of motion in the bedroom does wonders, that’s why girls like dancers so much
There’s more game to be told, but this post is getting long. I listed the important things though.