Brehs gotta stop thinking money/career is the end all be all with these women

Uncle Trill

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You never lead with your wallet! Having money is like the icing on the cake and is there to make your own life easier first and foremost. The woman only gets access to your attention,money and time once she has earned it.

 

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You never lead with your wallet! Having money is like the icing on the cake and is there to make your own life easier first and foremost. The woman only gets access to your attention,money and time once she has earned it.


Old nikkas swear they be saying somethin. I ain't doing all that for a nut. I feel if a girl likes you then you don't have to tap dance, put on an act, and be charming, and all that other goofy shyt. If she's sexually attracted to you she will look at you find those things naturally in your actions. Or at the minimum be blinded by lust to overlook all the "red flags". The only area this doesn't apply though is chicks who play hard to get but even then in my experience if you ignore them and stop pursuing they want to know why or try to get you back into chasing for free attention. All this movie and internet shyt about having money, being smooth and romantic is mostly horseshyt, imo. Those things are nice but they aren't necessarily required from what I have seen and experienced.
Yeah trust.

My ex fell in love with a drug and alcohol addict with no job or car.

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Prime example. I think some chicks like nikkas like that because they like being a "healer" and "caretaker" building a man up. Or maybe that's all they know and are comfortable with because as a little girl, her mom was with nikkas like that. But idk
 

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Prime example. I think some chicks like nikkas like that because they like being a "healer" and "caretaker" building a man up. Or maybe that's all they know and are comfortable with because as a little girl, her mom was with nikkas like that. But idk

she's the caretaker type, it is what it is
 

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she's the caretaker type, it is what it is
The caretaker type really is just a covert narcissist that gets off on telling others what to do under the guise of helping and caring for them in most cases. Also, they get off on the idea of being needed. I think it's called Altruistic narcissism.
 
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