Brehs, How Do You Play It While Dating Possibly The One?

[CodeBlaMeVi]

What's a man to do with himself while he's dating a woman he wants to be serious with? It's premature totally but he feels she's the one like never before. Said woman wants to give things more time before going up a level understandably.

Do he still entertain other women? Freak off other women during this getting to know her/him period, etc. Is it an euphemism for not being deeply interested?

My friend needs to know.

 

[SubZero]

No need to play it once your instincts tell you she's the one.

Just lock in and make it official cuz if you lose her, you may never find another one like her.

 

[Ohene]

No need to play it once your instincts tell you she's the one.

Just lock in and make it official cuz if you lose her, you may never find another one like her.

This. But if she isn't ready then you keep talking to other women and fornicating with them. Can't put all your eggs in one basket or give a girl the power of knowing she's the only one you care about without being exclusive

 

[Sensitive Christian Grey]

 

[Tombstone]

Play the shyt right. I've already lost a couple good girls to my fukk ups and always wanting other women around me.

Gotta a really good girl with a great personality/character now. Not even worried about other women, shyt not even worth it. Tryna be a trustworthy dude now.

 

[VFib]

She's the one, but you want to use up other women in the process? How nice.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

No need to play it once your instincts tell you she's the one.

Just lock in and make it official cuz if you lose her, you may never find another one like her.

That's the issue. He wants to lock her down but she wants to give it some time getting to know him. He wants to know what he should do or how to take that.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

She's the one, but you want to use up other women in the process? How nice.

No, he doesn't. That's the point. She wants to take her time. Oddly enough it hasn't been 2 weeks yet. So, he's trying to figure what should he do until they're official.

 

[Tombstone]

No, he doesn't. That's the point. She wants to take her time. Oddly enough it hasn't been 2 weeks yet. So, he's trying to figure what should he do until they're official.

Just chill out with her bruh and keep talkin. Don't mess with other girls for the time being if you're really feelin her. You dont want her to find out and then you lose her permanently or you start a relationship with trust issues already there. I've been there.

You can do it for a month.

 

[VFib]

No, he doesn't. That's the point. She wants to take her time. Oddly enough it hasn't been 2 weeks yet. So, he's trying to figure what should he do until their official.

Ummmmmmm, how about get to know her.

If they've only known each other for 2 weeks, I don't blame her for wanting more time.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Just chill out with her bruh and keep talkin. Don't mess with other girls for the time being if you're really feelin her. You dont want her to find out and then you lose her permanently or you start a relationship with trust issues already there. I've been there.

You can do it for a month.

Cool brehs. He ain't want to feel like he's being strung along.

 

[-DMP-]

2 weeks

Just wait for her to fukk up (trust me, honey moon wont last for long), by the time that happens, youll know more about her and how she responds to said fukk up will let you know if shes worth building with.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

I was going to say continue to see other women. It's not a good feeling to be certain that she is The One while she is
apprehensive. But then I thought about it - It depends on how active, attentive, engaged and consistent she is during this getting-to-know-you phase...and if she is entertaining other guys.
Either way, it's not good to let someone drag you or treat you like an option if you're offering them commitment.

So, if she's doing things right then cut contact with the other chicks so you won't have to deal with that when you seriously link up with The One. It can be a mess when you don't.

 

[SubZero]

That's the issue. He wants to lock her down but she wants to give it some time getting to know him. He wants to know what he should do or how to take that.

No, he doesn't. That's the point. She wants to take her time. Oddly enough it hasn't been 2 weeks yet. So, he's trying to figure what should he do until they're official.

So, they've only known each other for two weeks, yes? Why's he in a rush and how does he know she's the one for him? I thought they've known each other for time.

Women are very pretentious and two weeks is a very short time to know a woman. You can be around a woman for 2 years and not know who she truly is. Your boy needs to give it time, take it slow, and move at her pace. He might end up putting her off by breathing down her neck too tough.

But if his instinct is telling him she's the one - he can still play it while getting to know her and moving at her pace cuz it's better that way so as not to get too attached for now. And probably do something that gives the "desperate" energy. A lot of chicks don't like that. He should just be himself and do his thing. Don't force things.

 

[Turbulent]

Depends if "your breh" already fukked or not. If he already hit and she still not sure, i would give space and deal with other women. If he didn't hit yet, that means she either playing games or some things dude is doing or saying making her unsure of how attractive he is. Or maybe it's a personal issue of hers. Then it depends how patient you are and if it's something she actually trying to figure out. I personally have low patience, not to say that i have none but you gotta draw the line somewhere. If i did every reasonable thing to persue a chick and she's not sure about if she wants me, by definition she can't be "the one".

EDIT: whatever you do, don't lie to her and don't play stupid games with her.