Brehs...I think money directly impacts my happiness/sadness

Sad Bunny

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:ohhh:

When my bank account is stacked up, Im happy. :ohhh:

Payday makes me happy. :ohhh:

Just the mere thought of paying off debt and making more money has me like :ohlawd:

But, when my account is low, or a random debt pops up, or I have to dig in my savings, iam sad and feel poor and like Im losing :ohhh:

I need help :to:
 

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this isn't normal. seek professional help immediately.
 

Scustin Bieburr

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You feel trapped without money. Money is a means to do whatever the fukk you want.
 

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If you're sad broke then it's normal. If you're sad rich then people can say "something is wrong with you" all they want. This is a capitalistic society. The people who say "money ain't everything" are people who never had it or the people who always had it and don't want anyone else threatening how much money they make.

If money doesn't buy happiness, then what does?
 
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What about you family, or anybody else you care about; do enjoy being around them? What about any goals, do you have any ? Anything you're passionate about? Try to find some appreciation for the non material things in you life, like the people you care for;When you do you'll probably find yourself happier when you're around them. Or you could learn a new skill, like drawing or something else that takes time to master, because accomplishing things tend to make people happy; especially if it's challenging or they're new to the skill. Or try and go out and experience some new shyt in general,like traveling to a place you've never been to and whatnot.

Whatever you do doesn't have to involve alot of money, but it's fine if it does, because money making you happy isn't a problem, the problem is that you ONLY find happiness in money. It's important to know that money doesn't have to dictate your worth or happiness, and making money for the sake of it shouldn't be your goal in life because it's a shallow and fleeting happiness. Your goal beyond sustaining yourself should be to enjoy whatever time you have left, however you can ( as long as you aren't hurting anybody else in the process) so experiment until you find some shyt that makes you happy.

oh and fun fact, there isn't much of a correlation between money and happiness after you take in a certain amount of money, Who would've though? :mjpls:
Study: Money Buys Happiness When Income Is $75,000 - TIME

some of that shyt in the article could apply to you actually :usure:
 

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Money has never provided sustained happiness; receiving money will lift my mood at that particular moment. In that sense it's no different than busting a nut or eating ice cream or something. :yeshrug:
 

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@Youhadasparkwhenustarted

True. I think its just a temporary thing. All I want is money to pay off bills and get out of debt.

Once I quit my part time job, ill be racked up and racked out.

The gym, shopping, family and friends make me happy. And music and movies.

:smile:
 
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