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I’m early 30s and single single for the first time. I gave my life to God so in moments of loneliness, I can’t escape it by indulging in debauchery at a strip club. I live 20 miles away from most of my family so I really be alone a lot after work.

I’m a creative so I work off inspiration.

I broke up with my ex in June and she moved out in July. We linked up recently and frolicked around and kissed after having lunch. That lunch we disclosed that we are talking to other people. She’s dating and playing the field and I’m not currently talking to the woman I was talking to so I’m in a vulnerable state.

I am not GMB plus I want another child. My only child is a teen so he’s growing into himself. I went back to the Tinder and Hinge but Idc for the online dating thing anymore. Just don’t. I’m a grad student that’s already behind on some assignments so I don’t go out unless it’s to the gym.

I just don’t want to be alone anymore and want a quality woman I find attractive that has a similar mindset of growing and building.

Anyone who knows me on here, knows I’ve lived a full life so I’m ready for someone with substance.

It’s like women of today are either broken or broke and most cases both. I can only be with a sister and Tinder keeps giving me anglos and latinas and I don’t want them chicks. I pray on it but :yeshrug:.

My love for God and Jesus won’t waiver in this time of despair. Likely pulling me closer.

@Abraxus summed up it with one word that I forgot and it’s COMPANIONSHIP.

Nothing more right now.
 
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karim said:
Give your life to god so you can't fap when you're lonely brehs :francis:
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Nope unless it’s for medical reasons. I don’t watch porn anymore. I watch sermons, pray and read the Bible throughout the day.

Sometimes I just want a solid woman that’s 100 into me and vice versa just to kick it with. A lot of the women have themselves spread thin entertaining a bunch of guys. I’m not on that and it is what has me second guessing even being involved with my ex. We didn’t break up for infidelity so I thought it will be easy to pick up where we left out but I scarred her and she wants to vet if I really changed, etc. However, she’s continuing to talk to other cats. I’m not going to be competing for any woman.
 
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AnnoyedWithHoes said:
Nope unless it’s for medical reasons. I don’t watch porn anymore. I watch sermons, pray and read the Bible throughout the day.

Sometimes I just want a solid woman that’s 100 into me and vice versa just to kick it with. A lot of the women have themselves spread thin entertaining a bunch of guys. I’m not on that and it is what has me second guessing even being involved with my ex. We didn’t break up for infidelity so I thought it will be easy to pick up where we left out but I scarred her and she wants to vet if I really changed, etc. However, she’s continuing to talk to other cats. I’m not going to be competing for any woman.
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So simply speaking, you fukked up your last relationship and now you regret it, because the dating game is no fun.
 
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AnnoyedWithHoes said:
I’m early 30s and single single for the first time. I gave my life to God so in moments of loneliness, I can’t escape it by indulging in debauchery at a strip club. I live 20 miles away from most of my family so I really be alone a lot after work.

I’m a creative so I work off inspiration.

I broke up with my ex in June and she moved out in July. We linked up recently and frolicked around and kissed after having lunch. That lunch we disclosed that we are talking to other people. She’s dating and playing the field and I’m not currently talking to the woman I was talking to so I’m in a vulnerable state.

I am not GMB plus I want another child. My only child is a teen so he’s growing into himself. I went back to the Tinder and Hinge but Idc for the online dating thing anymore. Just don’t. I’m a grad student that’s already behind on some assignments so I don’t go out unless it’s to the gym.

I just don’t want to be alone anymore and want a quality woman I find attractive that has a similar mindset of growing and building.

Anyone who knows me on here, knows I’ve lived a full life so I’m ready for someone with substance.

It’s like women of today are either broken or broke and most cases both. I can only be with a sister and Tinder keeps giving me anglos and latinas and I don’t want them chicks. I pray on it but :yeshrug:.

My love for God and Jesus won’t waiver in this time of despair. Likely pulling me closer.
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You trolling right :dwillhuh:
 
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Log off tinder, stop using online sites and apps to find a quality woman because you wont. The women on there receive thousands of messages and have plenty of options with such an inflated ego. Stay off all social media unless it is for business, as it will make you depressed. Fill any lonely time you have with something, do chores or read a book. Make sure you leave the house every night. Since you are in school, try to approach the women there. Continue hitting the gym, and stack up as much money as you can. Most of the quality women are taken, so good luck :wow:
 
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