i believe satan was the serpent
Brehs, so women with pasts should never be able to find love?
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FLYINHAWAIIAN said:
Nothing really. I was abstinent for 7 years getting my life together so really didn't give a damn what they thought.
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Incogno said:
Many people do, but that's a later interpretation by Justin Martyr in the 2nd Century CE.
i still believe satan is the serpent...cause all the dots connect...
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FLYINHAWAIIAN said:
Bruh, the FIRST question they ask when they hear that answer is 'Why not?', or, we get accused of lying.
As if ALL 'Black' men are expected to have multiple children/baby-mammas because we have no control over our dikks and will fukk anything at the drop of some panties.
You either get looked at like a damned unicorn (rarely happens), or a leper (9 times out of 10).
I hear similar things from women in that situation, but it's more like the dude just found a diamond in a pit of bullshyt and pig vomit rather than 'Something MUST be wrong wit' that bytch.'
As if ALL 'Black' men are expected to have multiple children/baby-mammas because we have no control over our dikks and will fukk anything at the drop of some panties.
You either get looked at like a damned unicorn (rarely happens), or a leper (9 times out of 10).
I hear similar things from women in that situation, but it's more like the dude just found a diamond in a pit of bullshyt and pig vomit rather than 'Something MUST be wrong wit' that bytch.'
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Incogno said:
Not necessary since that isn't the point of the narrative or that plot device, but understandable.
Not with me. If the next sucker wants it, more power to him.
The funny thing is, we constantly vouch for ones past not being relevant on the coli -
but when a guy walks in on his wife getting her back blown out or she takes him to the cleaners, we laugh and tell him,
"You should have chosen better."
Any man knowingly putting a ring or getting seriously invested into a woman who has a spotty past is an idiot.
You can't predict these things, but you can take precautions to avoid them to the best of your ability.
Every woman isn't relationship material and every woman doesn't deserve to, nor is fit to be a wife.
People don't change tho?
Not with me. If the next sucker wants it, more power to him.
The funny thing is, we constantly vouch for ones past not being relevant on the coli -
but when a guy walks in on his wife getting her back blown out or she takes him to the cleaners, we laugh and tell him,
"You should have chosen better."
Any man knowingly putting a ring or getting seriously invested into a woman who has a spotty past is an idiot.
You can't predict these things, but you can take precautions to avoid them to the best of your ability.
Every woman isn't relationship material and every woman doesn't deserve to, nor is fit to be a wife.
@Emperor_ReinScarf has a body count high enough that would qualify a woman as a hoe. But he always says thats in the past. He claims he never cheated on anybody in a relationship. I believe him. Why praise him and demonize his female equivalent?
Men and women are different in some ways, but to hold em to such vastly different standards seems silly.
And yea, when PEOPLE choose wrong, and face the consequences of their decisions, the appropriate response is "they should have chosen better". That is always the refrain when a woman gets raped/beaten/murdered.... but when a man espouses a blatant whore and ignores disrespectful acts like a chick constantly talking to/hanging out with/sleeping over at her ex's house, its a boat load of excuses. Brehs will never achieve anything or lift each other up if we dont hold each other accountable for our actions
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People don't change tho?
@Emperor_ReinScarf has a body count high enough that would qualify a woman as a hoe. But he always says thats in the past. He claims he never cheated on anybody in a relationship. Why praise him and demonize his female equivalent?
Men and women are different in some ways, but to hold em to such vastly different standards seems silly.
And yea, when PEOPLE choose wrong, and face the consequences of their decisions, the appropriate response is "they should have chosen better". That is always the refrain when a woman gets raped/beaten/murdered.... but when a man espouses a blatant whore and ignores disrespectful acts like a chick constantly talking to/hanging out with/sleeping over at her ex's house, its a boat load of excuses. Brehs will never achieve anything or lift each other up if we dont hold each other accountable for our actions
I'm not interested in dating @Emperor_ReinScarf or any other man so I couldn't care less about his bodycount.
Sounds like a personal issue between you two that I'm not interested in.
I also never advocated for the bold. In fact, I said the complete opposite, so I'm not sure what the intent of your response was.
I have no beef with brother Reinscarf, just using him as an example to point to the double standards here.
I agree, dudes shouldnt wife thots, but most of the time when it happens, its not "you should have chose better", its "Get married brehs", or some other meme that always blames women for the man's poor decisions.
I'm going to keep it real here. Everyone should expect the best for themselves no matter what you're past has been, especially if that person is trying to make positive changes. If we all got judged on everything we did growing up most of us wouldn't deserve love.
With that said if you got bodies in your past *over 10 imo* you should let the person you're with know upfront. To alot of people, although they might not say it, but it bothers them..(more so men that women) better to let them know upfront or earlier on that it to come up later down the line in casual convo and one or the other person is really turned off by the ideal of there man or girl being with over a dozen people.
It does feel a bit "unfair" when a person tries to keep there body count low and then there are those's that that have slept with 30 or more people that want to feel like they are just as good if not better than the ones that might have been with only a handful. But we as a society re enforce that idea anyway, yall want a pro head doctor that only been with 1 or 2 people. A dude with a mean back stroke that isn't a whore.... It just doesn't add up. Plus there is risk reward with everything, those that have been with dozens of people risk there health everything time. Condoms and contraceptives are far from fool proof, so if they make it out unscathed then I can't be mad attem.
Personality I don't think your past matter if it doesn't endanger or threaten me or my health, and you aren't doing the same things. I think our past helps make or break what we will be in the future, so if you had a thotty past and realized you want a change I think you'll be better for it. Just don't expect many men to take you in with open arms and not have some preconceived idea's, especially if you come with baggage.
Personally for me a person past doesn't matter, its what they want for the future that concerns me.
With that said if you got bodies in your past *over 10 imo* you should let the person you're with know upfront. To alot of people, although they might not say it, but it bothers them..(more so men that women) better to let them know upfront or earlier on that it to come up later down the line in casual convo and one or the other person is really turned off by the ideal of there man or girl being with over a dozen people.
It does feel a bit "unfair" when a person tries to keep there body count low and then there are those's that that have slept with 30 or more people that want to feel like they are just as good if not better than the ones that might have been with only a handful. But we as a society re enforce that idea anyway, yall want a pro head doctor that only been with 1 or 2 people. A dude with a mean back stroke that isn't a whore.... It just doesn't add up. Plus there is risk reward with everything, those that have been with dozens of people risk there health everything time. Condoms and contraceptives are far from fool proof, so if they make it out unscathed then I can't be mad attem.
Personality I don't think your past matter if it doesn't endanger or threaten me or my health, and you aren't doing the same things. I think our past helps make or break what we will be in the future, so if you had a thotty past and realized you want a change I think you'll be better for it. Just don't expect many men to take you in with open arms and not have some preconceived idea's, especially if you come with baggage.
Personally for me a person past doesn't matter, its what they want for the future that concerns me.
I'm going to keep it real here. Everyone should expect the best for themselves no matter what you're past has been, especially if that person is trying to make positive changes. If we all got judged on everything we did growing up most of us wouldn't deserve love.
With that said if you got bodies in your past *over 10 imo* you should let the person you're with know upfront. To alot of people, although they might not say it, but it bothers them..(more so men that women) better to let them know upfront or earlier on that it to come up later down the line in casual convo and one or the other person is really turned off by the ideal of there man or girl being with over a dozen people.
It does feel a bit "unfair" when a person tries to keep there body count low and then there are those's that that have slept with 30 or more people that want to feel like they are just as good if not better than the ones that might have been with only a handful. But we as a society re enforce that idea anyway, yall want a pro head doctor that only been with 1 or 2 people. A dude with a mean back stroke that isn't a whore.... It just doesn't add up. Plus there is risk reward with everything, those that have been with dozens of people risk there health everything time. Condoms and contraceptives are far from fool proof, so if they make it out unscathed then I can't be mad attem.
Personality I don't think your past matter if it doesn't endanger or threaten me or my health, and you aren't doing the same things. I think our past helps make or break what we will be in the future, so if you had a thotty past and realized you want a change I think you'll be better for it. Just don't expect many men to take you in with open arms and not have some preconceived idea's, especially if you come with baggage.
Personally for me a person past doesn't matter, its what they want for the future that concerns me.
breh its not that it bothers
stats have showed time and time again women with a high body count rarely last in marriage, how can you bond with one man for "life" when you've bonded with 40 other nikkaz, your brain becomes wired to always want new dikk, to always want novelty, that new hit that cocaine type sex you get with a new nikka
by all means if you don't care then jump right in
Just like anything that you might get addicted to you can get over it, If you can stop smoking, heroine, drinking or meth you can stop being thotty. Going into a relationship though that's something you have to consider, and if a chick told me in the 1st couple weeks or so that she has had sex with alot of dudes and its not something she is proud of and just wants me to know. My trust level for her would go way up, doesn't mean I wouldn't be a bit apprehensive or aware of the possibility of her going back to her ways. But that show of good faith say's alot.
On the other hand if I met a chick that has never been in a situation to really cheat or isn't in that situation often, the unknown is dangerous. I'd hate to think I have a prize only for her to screw me over harder than a chick with a past, at least a chick with a past we are both aware that certain things could be a issue. Have you ever tried having a discussion with someone that feels like they haven't done it before so why would they do it now or that based on what they have done you shouldn't worry about it.... Those are the 1st people to stumble when hard times come.
I'm not co signing brothers or our women to wife up and tied down whores, imo they should be the last of litter to be picked. But if a decent person with a checkered past that is genuinely trying to do what's right wants to get to know you.... I don't think it should be auto bush status.
eh thats you, to me screening women is the number 1 priority for me to even consider a relationship.