Brehs, what can I do to help my cousin's kid? :snoop:

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I have an adopted cousin from Jamaica. My Aunt and her husband adopted her when she was a baby. My family knew her mother, who was a prostitute, and my Aunt decided to adopt her because she didn't want her growing up in the hood with her mother.

My Aunt and her husband took good care of her, they basically spoiled her. My Aunt never checked her attitude because my Aunt has a very bad temper. She was afraid that if she spanked her, she would get carried away and end up killing her. So, as a result, my adopted cousin basically became a THOT.

At one point, my cousin was so fukked up that one of my other Aunts drove down to my Aunt's house, beat my adopted cousin up, knocked her out, and literally threw her in the bushes. :dead:

She had a kid by some thug in Florida, where most of my family members live, about a year ago. She met a SIMP, who we're gonna call Kanye (cause the nikka looks like Kanye). The two got married over the summer in Florida, and my Grandmother who owns a house here in Dallas is letting the two stay in her house.

The main reason the two came to Dallas is because my Aunt was getting to the point where she might snap. Everyone was afraid that my Aunt might snap, and murder my adopted cousin, Kanye, and the baby on some :demonic: mass murder type shyt.

My Grandmother is paying for everything except the water bill and the electricity bill, which is like $100 a month. It's in the heart of Frisco, which is a very wealthy suburb here in Dallas.

And it's not some small one-story home. It's a two story home with five bedrooms, 3 bathrooms, a living room, a huge ass kitchen, a bar, a formal dining room, a backyard, and a pool.

Not only that, but Kanye works as a Verizon salesman. He TRIPLED his profit when he came here to Dallas.
You think the two would get their shyt together. They're in their 20s. They haven't been to college. Kanye is making good money. They live in a nice house, and don't have to pay for it. They have a chance to get ahead. But, so far, all they've partaken in is fukkery. They've only been here since September, but they're already causing problems.

- The two brought the baby over to my parent's house so that my little sister could babysit. It was like 30 degrees outside, but the baby was dressed in shorts and a t-shirt. My Mom was so upset about it that she went out and bought warmer clothing for the baby.

- She was smoking weed a lot in Florida. She claims that she's clean, but, every time she's come over to my parent's place she's smelled like weed. She took the baby over to my parent's house last Sunday, and the kid wasn't as alert as he usually is and he had red eyes. He confronted my cousin about it, she said he's probably just tired, and hasn't brought him back for my sister to babysit, because she knows we're onto her.

- She got into a car accident and got a $1,600 settlement. She's going back to school soon (apparently) and needs a laptop. My Aunt said she's not gonna buy her the laptop since she has settlement money. My adopted cousin cussed her out and said that my Aunt never did anything for her.

- My Grandmother said the TV bill has raised by $100, and that if they're going to buy extra television channels, they have to start paying the bill. Kanye said that if he has to pay it, he's going back to Florida.

- I can tell she's cheating, or going to be cheating, on Kanye. Hell, when they first came into town, I stopped by my Grandmother's house just to see the baby and welcome them to Texas. She started choosing up on me, and told me how "cute" I've become. The cuckold ass nikka just stood there with a goofy ass grin.

My Dad is really messed up about this because he wants to help her, but she's just a pain in the ass. When my Dad was younger, he wouldn't have put up with half the bullshyt she's trying to pull on him. But, he's getting old, and he's not as sharp as he used to be.

And it's starting to piss me off because my Dad is getting old, and he doesn't need this type of stress in his life, especially from a niece of his who isn't even blood-related to us. I don't give a fukk what anybody says. I would've disowned her ass years ago if I were in my Aunt's shoes.

And I'm also low-key salty that I'm in college, living in a small ass condo. But, my Grandmother let's her fukked up, adopted Granddaughter live in her luxury home. :mjcry:

But what's really bothering me is the fact that the baby is having to suffer because his parents are fukking stupid and immature. I can tell he's really bright and is going to grow up and be very intelligent. But, if his parents, especially his mother, don't get their shyt together, he's going to be a lost cause.

TL;DR: My cousin is fukked up, but she has a kid who has potential. What should we do to guarantee that he's not going to grow up and become fukked up like his parents?
 

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Cliff notes nikka

:stopitslime:

- I have an adopted cousin. She and her simp husband came to Dallas from Florida with their kid.
- They live in a nice ass house, owned and still payed for by my Grandmother.
- They participate in fukkery 24/7, which would be fine if they didn't have a child.
- The child, who clearly has the potential to be very intelligent and successful, is being raised by dumbass parents.
- I'm worried for that child, but I don't know what to do to help because the only option I know at the moment is to call CPS. Last thing I want is for a black child to end up being put up for adoption. But, at the same time, I don't want the kid to lose it's potential, hence the reason why I'm searching for other options.
- Not only that, but they're already getting into trouble, and if someone doesn't interfere, they may lose the child anyway, which I don't want to happen.
- For extra detail, see the OP.
 

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:stopitslime:

- I have an adopted cousin. She and her simp husband came to Dallas from Florida with their kid.
- They live in a nice ass house, owned and still payed for by my Grandmother.
- They participate in fukkery 24/7, which would be fine if they didn't have a child.
- The child, who clearly has the potential to be very intelligent and successful, is being raised by dumbass parents.
- I'm worried for that child, but I don't know what to do to help because the only option I know at the moment is to call CPS. Last thing I want is for a black child to end up being put up for adoption. But, at the same time, I don't want the kid to lose it's potential, hence the reason why I'm searching for other options.
- Not only that, but they're already getting into trouble, and if someone doesn't interfere, they may lose the child anyway, which I don't want to happen.
- For extra detail, see the OP.
Spend more time with him and be his role model :ld:
 

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talk to Kanye and see if he can talk some sense into your cousin, it seems like she's the bad influence from what I read in the OP.

if that doesn't work, talk to your Grandmom and parents and see what ya'll can do to put the baby in a better situation. sounds like your Aunt and Uncle tried to do her a favor by adopting her and taking her away from her biological mother in J.A. but she turned out to be just as bad, if not worse. :manny:
 

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talk to Kanye and see if he can talk some sense into your cousin, it seems like she's the bad influence from what I read in the OP.

if that doesn't work, talk to your Grandmom and parents and see what ya'll can do to put the baby in a better situation. sounds like your Aunt and Uncle tried to do her a favor by adopting her and taking her away from her biological mother in J.A. but she turned out to be just as bad, if not worse. :manny:

Yeah he's actually trying to do the right thing.
But, the issue is, the dude lacks balls.
Like, I wanna slap the shyt out of him.
She talks to him any kind of way and treats him like he's a little kid.
I'll be damned if I ever wife up a single mother, embrace a child that isn't mine, and then let that bytch disrespect me. :dahell:
 

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Even if you're not always around you can still be a constant in his life. Just try to keep up to date with what's going on in school and show an interest in what he's interested in, get to know how he see's the world and connect with him on that level. Bring him to your place as often as you can, knowing he has a safe place where he can be himself will boost his confidence. More than anything just listening to the yout is the best way to find out what he really needs.
 

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Yeah he's actually trying to do the right thing.
But, the issue is, the dude lacks balls.
Like, I wanna slap the shyt out of him.
She talks to him any kind of way and treats him like he's a little kid.
I'll be damned if I ever wife up a single mother, embrace a child that isn't mine, and then let that bytch disrespect me. :dahell:
he better grow some nuts, otherwise his kid's gonna be a lost cause.

at least ya'll are caring family members that lil man can rely on even if his own parents don't really show interest. :wow:
 

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Even if you're not always around you can still be a constant in his life. Just try to keep up to date with what's going on in school and show an interest in what he's interested in, get to know how he see's the world and connect with him on that level. Bring him to your place as often as you can, knowing he has a safe place where he can be himself will boost his confidence. More than anything just listening to the yout is the best way to find out what he really needs.

That's what I'm gonna try to do. I'm trying to get into University of Texas at Dallas (I'm in community college at the moment), but if that doesn't work out I'm going to University of Houston. I'm praying to God that UTD accepts me, otherwise that kid might be screwed. My parents are old, they can only do so much at this point. :sadcam:
 
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