It's good at times...
Like if you're single and not really looking, don't have time for relationships, etc...
Just don't catch feelings... As soon as someone catches feelings you got problems, I would know it almost happened this weekend.
I been the side-nikka (or one of them) for a lil bit but I hadn't smashed one chick because she wants a real relationship with her dude and he playing around. But she won't mess around on him. So she was just talking to me and we was getting close and shyt... I started feeling her but was still respectful of her relationship
Then she flipped out on everyone and I hadn't really talked to her since. Sucks because I thought she could've been the one. Beautiful chick but I guess I caught the bipolar shyt just in time...
I don't try to be a side nikka tho, shyt just seem to happen. I would like a real relationship but the only chicks that come at me are the ones who want to mess around, are "separated", etc. And I refuse to chase a chick who views me as an option. So we fukk and keep it movin