Brehs, what's your policy on paying for dates

[CashmereThoughts]

If your really "dating" a chick. Like interested in potentially wifing her. How far will you go as far as paying for stuff..

I got this policy, I'll pay for the 1st date, and even the second if the 1st one goes well. But by the third date, if she not reaching for the check and offering to pay. We gonna have a conversation like"so am I supposed to pay for everything?"

If she on that "man always pays" chivalry bullshyt I can determine right there she not for me. .

"Waiter, separate checks please". How are y'all handling this brehs, I know it ain't HOH all day everyday.

 

[CashmereThoughts]

Mods please move to the locker room

 

[NotaPAWG]

This thread again ?

 

[zerozero]

I agree with your rationale.... as the dates add up it becomes awkward to foot all the bills

 

[Ohene]

the dating game is so wack; this is why i dont even really partake in it.

My last girlfriend our first date was to the movies. I bought the tickets and after she asked if I wanted any food. I was good but she bought pop corn and candy anyways and we shared.

 

[The Ruler 09]

There's a difference between doing something out of kindness and cause you want to and someone expecting it and using you. Should never allow the latter to happen as it's not worth it, no real woman gonna be concerned about all that bullshyt.

 

[Soundbwoy]

if I ask her out I don't have no problem paying and take her out to a place I selected(groupon)

 

[Darvish]

if she expects you to pay for everything, she ain't the one.

 

[kingdizzy01]

id say get yourself a white girl and make her pay for everything, sheeit u might even get a new car in her name

 

[VanVanCity]

What level of b are we talking about?

 

[The Maverick]

Bump.