Brehs: When she marries somebody else even though you and she know you should be together

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I'm in this situation right now....

This stuff is cutting deep. I've been trying to play it off like it's not affecting me, but it's all a lie...

I feel terrible today.

She and I both admitted today that we're in love with each other, but she was in her relationship and I'm in a relationship too...

And she just got married.


I'm over here playing it off with this face


when I really feel like this




I'm in pain, brehs.

 

[ikbm]

 

[jdubnyce]

if you two wanted to be together, you would be together

only thing stopping you two is two conversations that you're both not willing to have

 

[Sensitive Blake Griffin]

odds are she'll be divorced in a few years

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

if you two wanted to be together, you would be together

only thing stopping you two is two conversations that you're both not willing to have

You're right, but it's not that black and white, breh.

I used to look at it as being that cut and dry too, but for her to be with me, I'm asking her to throw away her 5 yr relationship, her wedding that she just had....

I can understand her not willing to do that at this point.

But the part that cut really deep was during our conversation today, she told me that a year ago, she was ready to walk away from him and be with me.

 

[Smoke]

Alotta fish in the sea breh

And how old are you and she? If yall not at least 23+ this whole situation will be forgotten in a matter of weeks.

 

[Dat Migo]

The only solution I see is that you have to kill her husband

 

[AtomicUse]

If you were really about it, youd give her husband a reason to post in that GOAT Website thread.











Just don't be surprised if you gotta post up in there too.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

But the part that cut really deep was during our conversation today, she told me that a year ago, she was ready to walk away from him and be with me.

Why didn't you take her offer?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I kept dreaming about walking in there on that Dwayne Wayne/Whitley Gilbert stuff....

and when she was about to say "I do", I interrupt and tell her that I love her, I'll cherish her etc....

And then be like, "BABY PLEASE!"

and then she runs away in the middle of her wedding to be with me.

But of course, life isn't as easy as an episode of A Different World... Stuff like this can really hurt people for the rest of their lives.




Here's the clip for you younguns that don't know what I'm talking about...

 

[Theraflu]

So you met a married woman and you think she should be yours.

LOL. go get your own.

 

[jdubnyce]

You're right, but it's not that black and white, breh.

I used to look at it as being that cut and dry too, but for her to be with me, I'm asking her to throw away her 5 yr relationship, her wedding that she just had....

I can understand her not willing to do that at this point.

But the part that cut really deep was during our conversation today, she told me that a year ago, she was ready to walk away from him and be with me.

this confuses me...she's in a 5 year relationship, gets married, but claims to love you (ready to walk away after 4 years), so what happened last year? Were you hitting it while she was with her husband?

 

[Snoopy Loops]

The only solution I see is that you have to kill her husband

 

[MikelArteta]

Ol after the fact nukka

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Why didn't you take her offer?

I didn't know!

She never actually came out and told me outright that she wanted to leave her relationship to be with me....

What happened was this:

A yr ago I was feeling guilt regarding the fact that Im in a relationship but was deeply in love with her...

So I told her then, out of guilt, that we should stop talking, because I'm feeling her when I'm supposed to be in a relationship with someone else, and that wasn't fair to the woman I'm with.

She was extremely sad... cried and everything. She told me that hurt her like nothing hurt her before

And I guess, in that moment where she felt that she had to choose, and it was either going to be me or be him, she was ready to choose me.

But she never actually told me that. I didn't know that she was ready to leave and be with me.

If I had known that, we would be together right now, and it would have been our wedding.

And she didn't come flat out and tell me because she thought I was rejecting her, when I really wasn't... I wanted to be with her and..... smh....

She just told me all this today; and now I'm sitting here like