Brehs who are shy/uncomfortable around women, are you close with your Female relatives?

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I got this theory, not sure if its 100% true, that brehs that struggle with being around women aren't close with their female relatives

Maybe as a kid, it doesn't mean anything. But as you get older you start to realize how much of a benefit of someone who's a female you can go and talk to or be around

No lie, you learn a female's mannerisms, how they act, what not to say, etc etc. Its the same way as meeting a girl who is real close with her male relatives, and how it makes it easier in a relationship

And no, I'm not talking about your mother or your aunts that are her age :pachaha: . I'm talking about your cousins, sister-in-law, nieces, sisters, etc.

And if you real close, you get to see how they deal with men, and their point of view on relationships. When I was younger I used to be like, :why: I don't wanna hear this shyt. Now as I'm older I'm like :jbhmm:


I really think this Men vs Women modern culture thing stems from both sides being completely clueless about each other
 
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I always tell people isolation is DEATH. These young dudes grew up being in their room all day on computer, playing video games and not really active in social groups, like any skill if you dont excercise it you will just weaken. These dudes cant socialize with peers, they think men are mean to them, get overly emotional, etc. And thats allll before even trying to be social with the opposite sex. Isolation can also mess with your brain matter, also to a lesser extent but alot of people dont exercise and their is that whole mind-body connection.

Putting screens in front of people from young age can seem like right thing but for hours on end is not good.

Seen this pop up just recently

 

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Lot of dudes had domineering female's in their life, that or overprotective ones, same thing.

Now they can't communicate like adults. Feminine tendencie, they run bytches away.
 
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Lot of dudes had domineering female's in their life, that or overprotective ones, same thing.

Now they can't communicate like adults. Feminine tendencie, they run bytches away.


So you are not close with any of your female relatives?
 

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Being shy around them can also come from fear of rejection and wanting to be with girls so much that they afraid of saying something stupid. Basically overthinking shyt.

So its difficult to be around attractive girls. Especially if they dont have the look females love at the moment.
 

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Was raised by a single moms. As a child i never had problems being friends with girls unlike my friends.

In my teens things changed. Hormones, being insecure, girls wanting the "bad guys" etc.

What i DIDNT get taught tho was the games they play and not sympathize and empathize with em as much. Cuz women play dirty
ALOT and be straight HOES once the "right" guys comes along.

I prolly did that thinking of my moms and what she went through. Thats the cost of being raised by a single mother.
 
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