Breh's who have had girlfriends move in with them. How'd It Go?

[onelastdeath]

So I been talking to one of my old girls. The one that got away over some dumb shyt I did, which I wasn't even sober for , but I'm improved now, more mature, more relaxed, I don't party that hard anymore. And I respect her.
And I'm willing to cut my whole roster off (which took hard goddamn work ) off. No if's or but's about it.

And it's been rocky as fukk these last few years, at a point we were only talking 3 times a year and shyt. And when we did meet up, it would all fall apart anyway.

BUT!

We been talking again day by day. And she's agreed to meet with me for Dinner tonight at a Diner in the Lower East Side. And we were on skype a couple hours this morning. And she told me she loved me

And I'm thinking about asking her to move in with me . No bullshyt. Nothing. She goes to Hunter, and I go to NYU. So it would be convenient for us right now. My brother knows her and loves her so I'm thinking about it. I just don't know if I wanna offer without really knowing what I'm getting into

Big Homie Brehs who been through it. Is that a good idea or nah?

S.O to @#1 pick

 

[no.]

So I been talking to one of my old girls. The one that got away over some dumb shyt I did, which I wasn't even sober for , but I'm improved now, more mature, more relaxed, I don't party that hard anymore. And I respect her.
And I'm willing to cut my whole roster off (which took hard goddamn work ) off. No if's or but's about it.

And it's been rocky as fukk these last few years, at a point we were only talking 3 times a year and shyt. And when we did meet up, it would all fall apart anyway.

BUT!

We been talking again day by day. And she's agreed to meet with me for Dinner tonight at a Diner in the Lower East Side. And we were on skype a couple hours this morning. And she told me she loved me

And I'm thinking about asking her to move in with me . No bullshyt. Nothing. She goes to Hunter, and I go to NYU. So it would be convenient for us right now. My brother knows her and loves her so I'm thinking about it. I just don't know if I wanna offer without really knowing what I'm getting into

Big Homie Brehs who been through it. Is that a good idea or nah?

S.O to @#1 pick

You just got back together? You have a history of being on and off?

Wait. Wait and give it some time.

 

[AlmightySu]

You never know what a woman is like 100% until you live with them for a long period of time. I know out of experience. That being said, I'd never do it again and I don't recommend it to anyone

 

[onelastdeath]

Did you just get back together? You have a history of being on and off?

Wait. Wait and give it some time.

We were so good for so long. Best relationship I ever had. Hands down, no debate. She brought out the best in me. Made me trust her, and I was fine with exclusivity. I never even thought about cheating on her. Originally she didn't wanna date me because I had a bad rep. I knew her for almost a year before we started dating. And I used to drop hints on her, And she always said to me " You're handsome, funny, smart, tall, but you're a fukking player I would NEVER date you". But eventually we went out for some tea one day, and ended up dating shortly after. And it was so prime

I went to a party. Got fukked up, and did some stupid things. Pictures of me kissing this girl were put on FB, and me grabbing on her titties. shyt I would have never done sober. And since then she hasn't trusted me. When we met up, it always ended rocky. And I tried for a while to get it back, but I started going through my own shyt in my personal life which lead to be falling back from the pursuit of something with her.

We were on and then off. That's it. No back and forth because she hasn't trusted me enough. She told me this morning that she loved me, and she missed me. And she started crying and I asked her to meet up with me and she said sure. I wanna try. I want that so bad.

 

[onelastdeath]

You never know what a woman is like 100% until you live with them for a long period of time. I know out of experience. That being said, I'd never do it again and I don't recommend it to anyone

People have told me that .

But I feel like it's the only way to let her know I'm serious. I wanna give her a key and all that. If we get back together, I legit have no plans on fukking that up. Absolutely not.

 

[Ricky Church]

me and my girl been living together for over 3 years now and it's been normal. don't really have any complaints except finding strands of hair sometimes in bed and on the floor, it's one thing about me that I can't stand it's loose hair, it makes me sick

I like having the bed to myself I like to sprawl out and sleep wildly, I can't do that when she sleep next to me. it's comfortable cause she usually stays on her side for the most part, but I like sleeping alone.

 

[onelastdeath]

me and my girl been living together for over 3 years now and it's been normal. don't really have any complaints except finding strands of hair sometimes in bed and on the floor, it's one thing about me that I can't stand it's loose hair, it makes me sick

I like having the bed to myself I like to sprawl out and sleep wildly, I can't do that when she sleep next to me. it's comfortable cause she usually stays on her side for the most part, but I like sleeping alone.

I've had girls leave my house mad because I tell them they've had to go. They took it as I wanted to hit and leave, when in reality I just wanted my bed to myself

 

[onelastdeath]

And I know she had her friends in her ear too. Saying shyt like " Well if he did that, you dont know what else he did"

Hateful bytches

 

[Michael's Black Son]

So I been talking to one of my old girls. The one that got away over some dumb shyt I did, which I wasn't even sober for , but I'm improved now, more mature, more relaxed, I don't party that hard anymore. And I respect her.
And I'm willing to cut my whole roster off (which took hard goddamn work ) off. No if's or but's about it.

And it's been rocky as fukk these last few years, at a point we were only talking 3 times a year and shyt. And when we did meet up, it would all fall apart anyway.

BUT!

We been talking again day by day. And she's agreed to meet with me for Dinner tonight at a Diner in the Lower East Side. And we were on skype a couple hours this morning. And she told me she loved me

And I'm thinking about asking her to move in with me . No bullshyt. Nothing. She goes to Hunter, and I go to NYU. So it would be convenient for us right now. My brother knows her and loves her so I'm thinking about it. I just don't know if I wanna offer without really knowing what I'm getting into

Big Homie Brehs who been through it. Is that a good idea or nah?

S.O to @#1 pick

dont do it.

 

[tater]

I would wait as well...it's still early. I lived with my BF for about three years before. It wasn't all bad, but it certainly wasn't all good. I sometimes need my space and he liked to have people around all the time. So you can see where that went with the living situation lol. I wouldn't suggest it at the juncture you're at now, but I don't regret it and I think it took our relationship to a better place.

But for now...

 

[CinnaSlim]

How old are y'all?
Anyway, I would wait since y'all are just getting back together. If you have your own place, I would give her a key first before asking her to full on move in.

 

[Diondon]

Breh aint you like 20?

 

[onelastdeath]

How old are y'all?
Anyway, I would wait since y'all are just getting back together. If you have your own place, I would give her a key first before asking her to full on move in.

Both 20. I have my own crib.

 

[onelastdeath]

Breh aint you like 20?

I just want it so bad. I don't even be trippin off women like that. At all. And I wouldn't ask her to move in if things were good between us, because I believe in space. But I feel like that's the only way I can let her know I"m serious and that I want her to trust me 100%. What better way to say you can trust me than to give her a key to your crib and have her stay with you ?

 

[Rawtid]

Shacking up is wack, but do you b