Most of the arguements here are not pragmatic and focused on finances, career, and more arrested development. My point was simple. Not having a family is normally for a minority of people who have a calling that contributes to an entire community. This is not the case for the majority now who are SOLELY focused on the religion of money/career. Irresponsibly having children is not the point here either.
This is why I said both sides are partially right but this is how an agenda works well. Sprinkle some half decent reasoning into irresponsible actions. Both sides are using sound reasoning for irresponsible behavior. Both behaiors are irresponsible to the community, both are selfish, one just has no physical evidence and gives a false image of accomplishment.
Its simple... MARRY, be fruitful and multiply. Poverty is manufactured and too many are using it as an excuse NOT to marry and contribute to society. As they are too lazy and selfish to collectively team up with their community and find effective ways to combat the current financial climate and produce FUNCTIONAL FAMILIES.
EVeryone is complicit, just based on the logic of....."both sides"
What are you talking about? If you’re Black in America, there is a system called White Supremacy that undermines the economic stability of most Black people. Yes Black people should work together to counter this, but the fact is an individual cannot do that alone. So it makes sense for most individuals to get economic stability before they start having children. A large percentage of people in prison were raised in poverty and/or by irresponsible parents who were emotionally arrested.







