Brehs with baby mamas claim brehs without kids are the real red flags

Dameon Farrow

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Man I been happily married and live my 2 kids like hell. But people need to stop being concerned with people not having kids. I see people with kids that are toddlers cursing at them and saying shyt you say to a teen or older kid. I was in the gas station and a mom told a boi maybe 3 that she would whip his ass if he didn’t hurry up :dahell:bytch he 3 since yesterday at the most and he going as fast as he can. Pick his ass up then :wtf:

And I see men on the same shyt too. People hate kids and still have them just to say they a parent and do the fun stuff only.
It’s a responsible decision if you don’t want them otherwise you would be a bad parent if you didn’t want them. And a lot of people really do have hard times in relationships or more introverted and just don’t get out enough but do want children even though they in they 30s or whatever.


Some people just want more freedom. Just because me and you want a family around us don’t mean everybody need that every day. Broken homes is what’s bad for black people and our community. Ain’t nothing cool about a child not being able to have both parents physically present with them every day and not full time. Every other weekend or not everyday at all is harmful even if you think you the perfect parent. This is not a shot at my fathers on here. I know people get married and get divorced or you might want someone to stay with but they don’t want you. My smoke is for nikkas to seed women up and have no desire to be with them long term or they know the woman ain’t shyt and they argue but the p*ssy good, so fukk it…You are literally creating dysfunction. Especially a boy needs dad there every single day . I did a lot of shyt and got away with it simply because I just saw my dad on the weekends. He couldn’t do nothing during the week :russ:
People have kids these days to get social media likes and to get in wills before their parents die. shyt goes deep. And the kids suffer.....
 

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A lot of people try to pedestalize having children because they literally have no other way to contribute to the world.

The same activity that a dog, a rat or a slug can do, they want to pretend like it's spiritual endeavor.

Procreation is biological, not divine, especially when the person doing it doesn't have a brain cell.
 

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PS Having a child could literally kill me. You can't even take the prospective of a woman. The audacity to think you can speak for the world.
That’s one thing I’ve noticed when I hear this “it’s your biological imperative to have children” argument. It’s almost exclusively from men, when the risk of child birth is only on women.

It’s like politicians telling us our to serve and die for our country, when they don’t have to be in the trenches (nor send their children), or in some cases “skip” serving at all.:sas2:
 

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That’s one thing I’ve noticed when I hear this “it’s your biological imperative to have children” argument. It’s almost exclusively from men, when the risk of child birth is only on women.

It’s like politicians telling us our to serve and die for our country, when they don’t have to be in the trenches (nor send their children), or in some cases “skip” serving at all.:sas2:
Exactly. That's how you know they don't give a shyt about anyone but themselves.
 

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That’s one thing I’ve noticed when I hear this “it’s your biological imperative to have children” argument. It’s almost exclusively from men, when the risk of child birth is only on women.

It’s like politicians telling us our to serve and die for our country, when they don’t have to be in the trenches (nor send their children), or in some cases “skip” serving at all.:sas2:

What kills me is they know they’re being disingenuous. The dudes in the video and brehs in this thread talking about biological imperative just want sexual access to young attractive childless women who may turn them down for having kids. Lowkey they’re also probably the type who would probably get young attractive childless women pregnant for the primary purpose of limiting their options (we all know women with children have fewer dating options) and extending their window of sexual access.
 

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That’s one thing I’ve noticed when I hear this “it’s your biological imperative to have children” argument. It’s almost exclusively from men, when the risk of child birth is only on women.

It’s like politicians telling us our to serve and die for our country, when they don’t have to be in the trenches (nor send their children), or in some cases “skip” serving at all.:sas2:
the chance 0.01-0.05% really low and most times the risk will be noticable
 

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A lot of people try to pedestalize having children because they literally have no other way to contribute to the world.

The same activity that a dog, a rat or a slug can do, they want to pretend like it's spiritual endeavor.

Procreation is biological, not divine, especially when the person doing it doesn't have a brain cell.
you can't conveniently compare the treatment of humans to animals
do we treat animals the same when it comes to being a dead beat dad or the issues of abortions
its a lazy argument to compare the two
 
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