I hate to say it...but if you really lay down with a chick who's crazy, and are dumb enough to fukk her without a rubber, it's kinda hard to feel sorry for you. Not trying to defend these women nowadays, definitely not, but I'm just being real.
You know those couples that fight CONSTANTLY, to the point where it makes literally no sense for them to stay together, and yet they do? Well, I've got a friend who's 25...was with a chick off-and-on for like four years, and their relationship was exactly like that. I don't know if there was EVER a time when I hung out with them and they didn't fight (usually about petty, retarded shyt)...chick was crazy, abusive, fukked his shyt up (big screen TV, car, etc.)...everyone always told this dude that he should break up with her (he's not perfect either, by any means...he's a HUGE pathological liar, and can be
very annoying...but this chick was just somethin' else )...but then at 20-21 (if I'm recalling correctly), he
intentionally knocked her up.

fukking idiot. Not surprisingly, things didn't end well...but I won't get too into that.
But yeah, I seriously don't understand why these dudes never learn.