How to get Women,
by Brotha Zay, Everywhere, USA
Tip 1-
Learn how to compliment her. Girls like it when you give them complimants, some more than others. The thing is, some guys over due it. It's like every other word out your mouth is a complimant. Complimanting a girl too much can lead in the possible scenarios:
Scenario 1-She starts to think that you're being this kind because you have NEVER had a girlfriend before. And that's just, well pathetic. However, most of the guys who do over shower girls with compliments haven't had a girl before.
Scenario 2-You're just trying to get in her pants. Never let a girl think this as she will go off on you like no one has. She might think "He's just sayin this s***t because he wants sex", which she has every right to feel that way.
Scenario 3-She thinks you have no game. For people who have no game, the only way for them to make a girl smile or laugh is by dishing out compliments left and right.
The way a girl can tell which one of the scenarios it is(see above), is by looking in your eyes. If you have that little boy puppy dog look, she's going to think scenario 1. If you have a little sly smirk along with sleazy eyes, she's going to think scenario 2. If you have a nervous look and and act nervous, she's going to think scenario 3.
The way to compliment her is just by telling her the truth. Don't tell her she's the most beautiful girl you have ever seen, please don't do that. Just give her a simple compliment(not too simple). Just let it come naturally. Oh yea, girls can tell when you're lying too, even if it's on the computer or phone, so never bulls***t with them.
Tip 2-
Know how to keep a conversation. Nothing fancy here fella's. When you have a conversation with a girl it shouldn't just be about one of you. It has to be about both of you. Never ask a girl the same question twice, never. That shows her that you're not a good speaker and that you're probably boring or you just don't care. When she talks about herself, listen. Act like nothing else interest you. Act like the words she's saying are the answers to every question know to man. When it's your turn to talk, just be yourself. Like I said earlier, girls know when you're lying. If you never sold drugs or been shot at, don't tell her that. It's best to know what interest her and you could talk to her about something that you know she would like to talk about.
Tip 3-
Know how to dress. It's true some girls are more shallow than others, but all girls appreciate a man who can dress right. They don't have to be some $90 black jeans, or some $200 dollar sneakers. Just look nice and act how you always would act. A woman once told me "It's not what you wear, but how you wear it." The better you can look in cheaper clothes, the more a woman will be impressed with you, whether she tells you this or not. And keep your hair nice. This is a must. And the last thing, which is probably the most important. Never wear dirty under clothes. This means no dirty boxers,shirts,socks etc...
Tip 4-
Smell good. When I say this, I don't mean shower yourself with perfume or cologne. I mean take showers and use soap. Wash your hair. Do this and you should smell good enough for the girl. I know you may think you have to wear all kinds of perfume and s***t, but you really don't. You don't really have to wear any. It's better to just shower and wash your hair and NOT put any spray on. A advantage of this is that they don't take your cologne on your neck if she's giving you a hickie.
Tip 5-
Treat her with respect. You don't have to act like she's the queen or something, just show her respect in every manner whether it's about sex, movies or even opinions. If you can't show her respect and/or have to have it your way, you'll see her leaving you pretty quickly.
Tip 6-
Be real. Nothing can make a girl more angry than someone being fake. If you like to listen to beyonce, then don't tell your friends you hate beyonce. If you still wear tighty whities, don't tell other people you don't. If you do this BS, she's going to think you're inscure(which you probably are) and will start looking at you differently.
Tip 7-
Protect her. Whether they admit it or not, women want someone who can protect them. If someone is flirting with her and she doesn't want them too, step in. If someone is harrassing her or making crude remarks, tell them whats sup. Let them know that they better not do it again. This way she feels safe around you. However, don't go overboard. Don't go stomping his face in over this. This might make her feel that you have anger problems and that you might hit her one day. Just make them back down so they know not to do it again.
Helpful hints:
-Don't call her if you don't have anything to say. They hate that.
-Have goals. They like people with goals. Don't just say "go to college" That's tired.
-Let her know things you don't like
-Don't think it's about you
-Keep your mouth clean, and your breath cleaner.
-Be mature. Not saying you have to act like her father or something, just know that there's a time to have fun, and a time to be serious
-Again, don't lie to her.
-Show her what your talents are.(Really, this is important)
-If she wants to buy you something, let her
-Make her laugh. If she likes you she'll probably laugh at your jokes anyway, but actually being funny is better.
by Brotha Zay, Everywhere, USA
Tip 1-
Learn how to compliment her. Girls like it when you give them complimants, some more than others. The thing is, some guys over due it. It's like every other word out your mouth is a complimant. Complimanting a girl too much can lead in the possible scenarios:
Scenario 1-She starts to think that you're being this kind because you have NEVER had a girlfriend before. And that's just, well pathetic. However, most of the guys who do over shower girls with compliments haven't had a girl before.
Scenario 2-You're just trying to get in her pants. Never let a girl think this as she will go off on you like no one has. She might think "He's just sayin this s***t because he wants sex", which she has every right to feel that way.
Scenario 3-She thinks you have no game. For people who have no game, the only way for them to make a girl smile or laugh is by dishing out compliments left and right.
The way a girl can tell which one of the scenarios it is(see above), is by looking in your eyes. If you have that little boy puppy dog look, she's going to think scenario 1. If you have a little sly smirk along with sleazy eyes, she's going to think scenario 2. If you have a nervous look and and act nervous, she's going to think scenario 3.
The way to compliment her is just by telling her the truth. Don't tell her she's the most beautiful girl you have ever seen, please don't do that. Just give her a simple compliment(not too simple). Just let it come naturally. Oh yea, girls can tell when you're lying too, even if it's on the computer or phone, so never bulls***t with them.
Tip 2-
Know how to keep a conversation. Nothing fancy here fella's. When you have a conversation with a girl it shouldn't just be about one of you. It has to be about both of you. Never ask a girl the same question twice, never. That shows her that you're not a good speaker and that you're probably boring or you just don't care. When she talks about herself, listen. Act like nothing else interest you. Act like the words she's saying are the answers to every question know to man. When it's your turn to talk, just be yourself. Like I said earlier, girls know when you're lying. If you never sold drugs or been shot at, don't tell her that. It's best to know what interest her and you could talk to her about something that you know she would like to talk about.
Tip 3-
Know how to dress. It's true some girls are more shallow than others, but all girls appreciate a man who can dress right. They don't have to be some $90 black jeans, or some $200 dollar sneakers. Just look nice and act how you always would act. A woman once told me "It's not what you wear, but how you wear it." The better you can look in cheaper clothes, the more a woman will be impressed with you, whether she tells you this or not. And keep your hair nice. This is a must. And the last thing, which is probably the most important. Never wear dirty under clothes. This means no dirty boxers,shirts,socks etc...
Tip 4-
Smell good. When I say this, I don't mean shower yourself with perfume or cologne. I mean take showers and use soap. Wash your hair. Do this and you should smell good enough for the girl. I know you may think you have to wear all kinds of perfume and s***t, but you really don't. You don't really have to wear any. It's better to just shower and wash your hair and NOT put any spray on. A advantage of this is that they don't take your cologne on your neck if she's giving you a hickie.
Tip 5-
Treat her with respect. You don't have to act like she's the queen or something, just show her respect in every manner whether it's about sex, movies or even opinions. If you can't show her respect and/or have to have it your way, you'll see her leaving you pretty quickly.
Tip 6-
Be real. Nothing can make a girl more angry than someone being fake. If you like to listen to beyonce, then don't tell your friends you hate beyonce. If you still wear tighty whities, don't tell other people you don't. If you do this BS, she's going to think you're inscure(which you probably are) and will start looking at you differently.
Tip 7-
Protect her. Whether they admit it or not, women want someone who can protect them. If someone is flirting with her and she doesn't want them too, step in. If someone is harrassing her or making crude remarks, tell them whats sup. Let them know that they better not do it again. This way she feels safe around you. However, don't go overboard. Don't go stomping his face in over this. This might make her feel that you have anger problems and that you might hit her one day. Just make them back down so they know not to do it again.
Helpful hints:
-Don't call her if you don't have anything to say. They hate that.
-Have goals. They like people with goals. Don't just say "go to college" That's tired.
-Let her know things you don't like
-Don't think it's about you
-Keep your mouth clean, and your breath cleaner.
-Be mature. Not saying you have to act like her father or something, just know that there's a time to have fun, and a time to be serious
-Again, don't lie to her.
-Show her what your talents are.(Really, this is important)
-If she wants to buy you something, let her
-Make her laugh. If she likes you she'll probably laugh at your jokes anyway, but actually being funny is better.
@ dis nikka trynna 5 star his own thread to combat da 1's folks is rainin on it.
