Groanman
Superstar
I remember after college I met this chick.
After a good while, she asked me to move in with her.
I did.
After about three months, we began arguing about stupid shyt.
One night, after I thought I had "won" an argument, she told me to move out of her apartment.
Now, within a matter of seconds, a self defense mechanism kicked in. Because before, I would've begged her to give me another chance. I did it many times. But, something told me that that shyt wasn't gonna work anymore.
Me (after a long pause): "Alright. If this is how it's gonna be, I'm not gonna fight it. Just let me stay the night and I'll be out of here tomorrow for good."
Her: "Fine."
I went to bed thinking that this was really it.
At like 3 in the morning, this same chick who was so sure that she wanted me to leave woke me up with hugs and kisses.
Her: "We need to make this work."
Me: "You're right. Thank you."
***Cliff's Notes***
If you're with a chick who wants to break up but you're not ready to break up, you have to make her think that you have options. If you beg her for forgiveness or another chance, it won't work.
She wants you to say that you cannot live without her.
But if you go the opposite route, it'll throw her off her game.
After a good while, she asked me to move in with her.
I did.
After about three months, we began arguing about stupid shyt.
One night, after I thought I had "won" an argument, she told me to move out of her apartment.
Now, within a matter of seconds, a self defense mechanism kicked in. Because before, I would've begged her to give me another chance. I did it many times. But, something told me that that shyt wasn't gonna work anymore.
Me (after a long pause): "Alright. If this is how it's gonna be, I'm not gonna fight it. Just let me stay the night and I'll be out of here tomorrow for good."
Her: "Fine."
I went to bed thinking that this was really it.
At like 3 in the morning, this same chick who was so sure that she wanted me to leave woke me up with hugs and kisses.
Her: "We need to make this work."
Me: "You're right. Thank you."
***Cliff's Notes***
If you're with a chick who wants to break up but you're not ready to break up, you have to make her think that you have options. If you beg her for forgiveness or another chance, it won't work.
She wants you to say that you cannot live without her.
But if you go the opposite route, it'll throw her off her game.
