Can black men and women truly be friends

[underwaterboogiebaby]

Please, only black people answer this. I know it's been asked in general, but today I am just showing concern for the brothas/sistas Can we start to break down the chaos in our relationships w/something that seems so simple? Before the divorce/crazy psycho baby daddy/mama drama, how many of us were able to have that basic friendship (where there was absolutely no sex) and relate to day to day issues? If you can't be friends with someone, how could you possibly take it to the next level? How many walls were put up, before even giving that person a chance?

 

[Absolut da poet ®]

Yes

I have a few female friends

1 of which I have never fukked and we've been friends for 18yrs now and recently went on a trip together

The other we used to mess around as teenagers and became friends after I got engaged #GMB™ and have been friends since
At least 15 yrs now

No big deal

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

Simple answer is yes.

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Keeping it 100, all my female friends are options.

 

[chief_keef_stan]

Ain't op married to a white man

 

[Matt504]

Yes, but it requires effort.

 

[Freedman]

What kinda loser hangs out with females without them eating the dikk

 

[Wiles]

I have female friends. Some I smashed. My girl is one of my best friends..

 

[The Mad Titan]

Sure but only under certain circumstances and conditions. Thats something you dont have to deal with when it comes to friends of the same sex.

If your a 24 year old male, your not making any new female friends without strings attached or without making some history 1st.

Actually really you can be friends with those of the opposite sex. Best friends....that however is almost impossible unless its the wifey or really old friend from youth, or family members.

 

[thirdeye]

I have tons of guyfriends then again I'm not sexually attracted to anyone so maybe that's why it works.

 

[Elle Driver]

Yes you can be.

 

[Throwbacksample]

Yes, its possible. A guy just doesnt have to look at women just for sex. S

 

[Rozay Oro]

Only if breh a beta, square, religious or gay.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Yes, it's possible, but not without real effort along with clearly-defined boundaries and effort. But to keep it 100, while I have NO intention on trying to smash any of my female friends ... if for some reason they threw the pass, I'm catching it.

 

[KnowDatImReal]

they can but there are problems because one or the other doesnt do whats expected so you hear black men aint shyt or black women are triflin we gotta appreciate each other more because there are good black women and men everywhere