Can having several different complexions in one family cause problems?

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Let's say you're dating a caramel color woman that has a darker child. You're lightskin and have a biracial child. You two come together and have a lighter child. So now you and your lady have 3 kids that don't look nothing alike. Would this bother you? Is it something you would consider with you first met her?


I know in a perfect world, race and color doesn't matter, but in America (especially Black America) it's a major deal.

If it's not a problem for you. How would you keep the kids from having self hate issues and what not?
 

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my pops is on the dark side.
my mom is white by the looks of her.
me and my sisters are paper bag.

everything is cool.
 

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Fukk you mean how do I keep my kids from having self hate issues?!:childplease:

Are you implying that as a parent, they are lowkey instilling self hate in the first plate?
 

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Fukk you mean how do I keep my kids from having self hate issues?!:childplease:

Are you implying that as a parent, they are lowkey instilling self hate in the first plate?


:stopitslime: When did asking someone how to prevent their kids from having self hate issues mean instilling self hate?:what:


I'm saying if your light and have a darker sibling who gets more attention, that can cause some self-esteem issues. You don't think so?
 

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I mean the kids looking nothing alike?

why would it matter?
i did not treat my mother or father different because of skin color.
i did not treat relative different.
i did not treat anyone different.

i grew up in the Bronx.
blacks, hispanics, asians, whites...everyone was in the same shyt hole.
 

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Your women are beautiful Slaimon. Them Afghani broads I see at uni make me want to convert to Islam everyday.
You should convert, get married to an Afghani Righteous woman, for the sake of pleasing Almighty Allaah alone, so that you have the best in this life, and eternal Paradise in the afterlife.
It's a lot better than falling for all of the deceptions from Satan and then dying not being prepared for that afterlife with a record full of sins.
 
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