Clay Puppington
rabid
How can an individual strike a balance between not caring what people think and living in belligerence
Can someone help me with the “not caring what people think about you “ mindset
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Bruh, do you always. Just prioritize what makes you and those you care about. The belligerence comes if you are willing to flagrantly deny others of joy in your pursuits. If you must steal or lie to enjoy yourself, you doing too much. Anything within the confines of mindfulness is fair game. “Do unto others” and what not.
RaspberryFitted
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Introspective thinking helps. Understanding what matters, why it matters, and what outcome you want from whatever situation. That’s how you cut the fat off your caring meter.
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U have to genuinely believe that u are god of ur universe…u are a man with beliefs and principles…other people have beliefs and principles of their own and are the center of their universe…their beliefs have nothing to do with you…whether they believe good things or bad things about u makes no difference…ur universe is the only thing that matters
RaspberryFitted
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“not caring what people think of you” is essential because everyone has thoughts and perceived notions on who you are, and it’s a losing battle in trying to change that.
also, there’s 7 Billion of people on earth. Easily a million in each major city. You are merely a speck in the grand scheme of things.
also, there’s 7 Billion of people on earth. Easily a million in each major city. You are merely a speck in the grand scheme of things.
Clay Puppington
rabid
But … it’s not the end yet breh
Find someone universally respected. Study them. Incorporate some of their mannerisms which u find admirable, into your daily life. Get a nice cologne. Smell nice. Dress well but not ostentatiously. Be respectful. Avoid confrontations if you can. Talk with some bass in your voice. Avoid putting yourself in situations where you’re in a hurry. Walk calmly.
you do all these things, u can rest assured anyone who hates on you, is driven by jealousy. And can u blame them? Be prepared for jealousy and take it with grace.
you do all these things, u can rest assured anyone who hates on you, is driven by jealousy. And can u blame them? Be prepared for jealousy and take it with grace.
Ask yourself, why do you care what people think about you? Do you base your value on what others think of you? What do you get out of knowing what they think of you?
Read this book.
Read this book.
to an extent yeah, but you can’t let that control you... that’s people’s faults.
off topic but I heard a motivational speaker say something that folks need to hear with the race to success. He spoke about ‘watching everybody on social media..etc, and trying to keep up with them and all the purchases and lifestyle. Went on to explain why some people we classify as rich aren’t happy. You end of living ur life for others and trying to live their lifestyle, completely alienating yourself from ‘yourself’