Can we discuss the mouthpiece? How do I improve it

Mirin4rmfar

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I would bet 99 percent of it is feeding women bullshyt lol. One of my homies talks that good talk but he is purely feeding bullshyt to these women lol. Some of the shyt I see him text women or say to women are clearly to appeal to emotions even though he doesn't mean it.
 

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Talk to them like you would anybody else. Women are humans too :heh:
Yes indeed we are... and only idiots believe ya'll lies.

Most of the time we know its lies but we go along with it to see where it leads us.

Telling women what they wanna hear to get the panty draws only works if you are convincing enough.

But what he doesn't know that doesn't work on every woman and we do it to ya'll too.

Do you know how many times I've butter up a man and said to myself "I hope this dude don't believe what I just told him.":sadcam:
 

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:scust:I despise the types who tell women what they wanna hear. I would say the best way to increase your mouthpiece is the read more...local news, novels, fantasy, tech articles...consume
EVERYTHING. Having a huge general knowledge base keeps you from running out of things to talk about. Hell, you might be able to comment on a ladies shoe choices cause of something
you saw on a fashion blog:francis:

Also, tap into your inner child. Interactions with women should be fun! Remember how imagination, and the Barney bag, was all you needed to have fun as a youngin? Stop talking about
grown shyt when it isn't necessary. Entertain yourself, but not at her expense:whoa:, and draw her in to the simpler days of life. Part of the mouthpiece isn't just what you say, its what
aura you give off...you have to set a tone and a mood. She might frown or be expressionless with everyone else, but she should look at you and glow because you appeal to her inner
child. Be the best part of her day and don't be afraid to look "uncool". Chicks who care about how you look to others aren't worth chasing anyway.

Lastly, don't be afraid to :duck:I'm not talking about lying about how much cash you have or some shyt (unless you make it obvious you are lying to continue a narrative).
Half the time when I speak to women, I just pretend I always knew them:yeshrug: @Phoenix_Knightly23 is my middle school pal who saved me from being beat up by some bullies
once. She offered to let them play with her Polly Pocket, they sneered, and walked away thinking we were both weirdos. We been fast friends ever since.

I just came up with that off the dome. Play with her and your surroundings on some "I know we were here once before when we shot that dice game with the busboys at PF Changs."
Realism<<<<<<Fantasy. Obviously when she is hooked you want to spend more time getting to know reality with her, but remember the chick probably works all the time and she
doesn't wanna have to always think about real life. Take her to mental disney land and form a bond. You can have inside jokes about shyt that don't even exist.
 

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Having a good mouthpiece or gift of gab comes easy for some people. It's a personality trait that we are born with or developed and nurtured at a certain age. It's hard to improve on it but u just gonna have to engage people and keep them interested.
 

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Trail and error is the only way there is no one or couple lines that can get any women. You have to learn to feel out each girl and come with a corresponding approach

Yep, practice. Fail, figure out what you did right and wrong. MAIN THING is just be yourself man, don't try to be a smooth talker if that's not you. You'll get a lot of women and lose some from being yourself. But in the end it's gratifying, "I pulled her and didn't have to change me"
 

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I've never been good at telling women what they wanna hear. And they call me out on it for being blunt at times. But i still get plenty of ass. :manny:
You can be blunt without being mean and hurting peoples feelings.
 

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If your reasoning for "strengthening your mouthpiece" is to get p*ssy, just cut through the bullshyt, save up a few checks and rent the services of an IG personality.

:francis:

:whoa: I don't believe in paying for p*ssy. When a woman wants you and craves your dikk and presence:ahh: is much more satisfying then a woman who is only doing it because she is in desperate need of money.
 

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As odd as it may sound, unless you the type to live with your shoes untied so you can slip in them shyts and bounce after the deed, that whole "Telling a woman what she wants to hear" shyt, just leads you into potentially fukked up scenarios.

I mean, first off, if you can hold a conversation with a complete stranger off of a mutually viewed topic (shyt on the news, Y'all see an argument or something happening directly infront of you.) and keep the conversation going until you part ways, then you should already know how to talk to most chicks and genuinely get 'em to open up around you enough to build a social relationship which sets you up to date or atleat smash on some less fraudulent shyt like stunting with resources that you faked or borrowed for the night, or promising bytches shyt that ain't going to ever see the light of day once you dip in the morning or send her packing.

As I've often said, I don't make it a business to argue with chicks, and I'm not a fan of dipping and running after the deed is done unless I've been instructed to (rare), so when I'm waking up in the morning, I know for a fact I ain't got to keep any stories in my head or wonder about how I'm going to do all the bullshyt I was saying in the club with my brain fuzzy from Alcohol and lack of blood 'cause it was all shoved up in my dikk on some desperately horny shyt.

Also, it doesn't hurt to be able to tell a story or two. I mean, even if they are mild ducktales, it's the perfect way to let a chick know a bit more about you, having just met you by telling some pertinent story to go along with one she might have already told or better yet, about a situation you're trying to relate to her in regards to an experience (Highschool days, travelling, the first time you got laid or drunk..etc.)

It ain't hard at all, but it takes practice, a bit of confidence and the knowledge that you ain't going to vibe with EVERY chick out there, so don't go thinking "One chick didn't like what I said, all bytches are stuck up, I'ma masturbate to oiled up pawgs and watch jaded black guys not having dates youtube Videos.":sadcam:

I've been curved or diverted many times:yeshrug: Just chaulk that shyt up on the scoreboard and keep it moving.:ehh:
 

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Just be real with them and have confidence.

Ol girl I'm seeing now, I've been myself completely. I told her straight up, I'm a nerd/geek and I do what I do. Board games, Magic the gathering, even watch anime on the weekend and sip on some drank :ahh: She tells me that she loves the way I am and that I shouldn't change :mjcry: You know, with my ex-wife I couldn't be who I wanted to be brehs :wow: She made fun of me and never supported my career and the things I wanted t do.

I say all that to say this: be yourself and be confident. That alone will get you what you want from a woman. If she ain't riding with that, then she ain't the one.
 
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