Can we talk about the rise in open relationships?

[Bigblackted4]

Humans are at BEST serial monogamists and even that is pushing it. Monogamy is not “natural” and people are less and less concerned with keeping up conventions to forego connections with others casual or otherwise

Bingo

 

[Bigblackted4]

Why do yall always say this? There are plenty of animals that only have one sexual partner their whole life and will never mate again after one of them dies

They don’t have the life expectancy that humans do

 

[3rdWorld]

It happens..more common than you think.

In the day we knew it was cacs solicting breh's to come smash their wives for them, and some apparantly want their daughters first time to be with a breh.

Whatever people call it, is irrelevant..everybody nasty and cheasting out there.

 

[Uptown WaYo87]

My ol-lady wanted to add a girl into the mix but I wasn’t feeling it. It kind of perturbed me and turned me off a lil how pushy she was to find someone. I’m a possessive ass nikka, what’s mine is mine I’m not trying to share. 2 heads are better than 1, but I’m ok dying and not experiencing a threesome.

Pause but you talk like a guy with a litte meat

My wife is actually open to a 3some with a female, shes willing to share me with another girl but only on vacation. Im not pushing it but i know it will happen within the next 2 to 5 years. No rush on my end, i want to enjoy it

 

[MajesticLion]

- look at Similar Threads
- propagandists gonna propagandize

 

[The Realist Perspective]

Wifey dabbled. Never was into it but I encouraged. Just another way to be fulfilled in life breh....

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Absolute cultural filth

 

[Collateral]

Pause but you talk like a guy with a litte meat

My wife is actually open to a 3some with a female, shes willing to share me with another girl but only on vacation. Im not pushing it but i know it will happen within the next 2 to 5 years. No rush on my end, i want to enjoy it

I’m not opposed to the idea of y’all hypothetically getting drunk one night on vacation and wind up bringing a shorty back to the villa spontaneously. Especially since it’s with your spouse that’s cool. But in the digital age I trust nann woman, that is why I had to check my girl for even having the idea of wanting to bring another woman into our relationship on some polygamous type shyt. It’s opening a can of worms that I ain’t got the patience or time for, really. Save that swinging shyt for the jumpoffs & side piece’s, not for a woman you actually value.

 

[SunZoo]

Why do yall always say this? There are plenty of animals that only have one sexual partner their whole life and will never mate again after one of them dies

There are plenty of animals that do a lot of shyt that we don't do.

I'm not talking about other animals, I'm talking about humans and historically for the vast majority of the species, true monogamy is more of an exception than the rule despite how much we try to force it. And again, there are ENM dynamics where sex isn't even the priority.

I didn't get introduced to ENM through swinging but by falling in love with my BM's best friend. She had sickle cell and was often too in pain to even think about some freak shyt yet that is one of the loves of my life. And I didn't have to abandon my family to be with her up until she passed.

 

[Uptown WaYo87]

I’m not opposed to the idea of y’all hypothetically getting drunk one night on vacation and wind up bringing a shorty back to the villa spontaneously. Especially since it’s with your spouse that’s cool. But in the digital age I trust nann woman, that is why I had to check my girl for even having the idea of wanting to bring another woman into our relationship on some polygamous type shyt. It’s opening a can of worms that I ain’t got the patience or time for, really. Save that swinging shyt for the jumpoffs & side piece’s, not for a woman you actually value.

Pause but honestly i might start a onlyfans with me n wifey. I was blessed with a cannon for a dikk but i dont want to expose wifey publicly. Weve talked about wigs, wearing sleeves to cover our tats but it seems like a lot of work

 

[Collateral]

Pause but honestly i might start a onlyfans with me n wifey. I was blessed with a cannon for a dikk but i dont want to expose wifey publicly. Weve talked about wigs, wearing sleeves to cover our tats but it seems like a lot of work

Lmao I think you should put this here
https://www.thecoli.com/forums/just-buggin-out.5/

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

I mean the underground becoming more mainstream. This is becoming a normal part of couples lives.

 

[Mugenight]

It's on the rise because the modern man is weak as hell nothing more nothing less.

 

[MarcMan]

I'm in an open relationship

My wife would be pissed if she found out though

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

There is little to no healthy, realistic representations of ENM for people to even begin to understand the nuances, everything poly/open gets associated with freak shyt and lack of commitment when that's far from what most dynamics can be described as.



This is a dope web series about a black couple that I think anybody curious about the topic should watch.

Watched the first episode. "You got a headache again? Maybe it's your allergies again, you know the pollen is high at this time."



But on the real, the series is interesting.