Can you be an Alpha Male when your life revolves around pleasing women? Jason Wilson

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Alpha males are all fathers in the family. The Alphas in the wolf packs are the parents.

There's no sense in being an alpha male unless you're a father.

Outside of that it's pointless.

To his statement I've seen too many young men centralize getting women as their reason for growing and that's a fools errand. You should grow for yourself and those that love you look out for you.
 

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Alpha males are all fathers in the family. The Alphas in the wolf packs are the parents.

There's no sense in being an alpha male unless you're a father.

Outside of that it's pointless.

To his statement I've seen too many young men centralize getting women as their reason for growing and that's a fools errand. You should grow for yourself and those that love you look out for you.
So I'm gonna dap but the whole Alpha thing was ironically about wolves in captivity. So one could argue about modern human relationships following a paradigm of being under a form of captivity but I digress.

The Alpha doesn't exist in regular day to day wolfpacks. Dude who wrote that has been trying to pull it back but it was too late.

 

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There was this great series of article’s I read years ago titled “Myth of the Middle Class Alpha Male”.

Basically real Alpha behavior will land you in jail because it’s against the law. Diddy and Andrew Tate would be considered Alpha’s and look what happened to them.
 

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It's a bit of a paradox. As a man you have to take ACTION, pursue your desires but with an internal detachment to outcome. Learn to appreciate the journey and process that comes with taking action, without being obsessed with actually attaining a specific end. I think the book way of the warrior based on the teachings of ancient samurai's is closest to my perspective on masculinity. Also, read the Tao Te Ching.
 

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There was this great series of article’s I read years ago titled “Myth of the Middle Class Alpha Male”.

Basically real Alpha behavior will land you in jail because it’s against the law. Diddy and Andrew Tate would be considered Alpha’s and look what happened to them.
The closest thing to being an "Alpha Male" (without going to prison, or getting killed) is packing your shyt to go live off the grid. That's true sovereignty
 

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Some guys moms should have swallowed them instead of bringing them to term.
 
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honestly...just about EVERYTHING a man does....is geared towards getting women....

those fools getting ripped in the gym...buying lambos...dunking basketballs....scoring touchdowns....earning millions....etc....

ALL leads back to getting and/or impressing women....

TRUE masculinity is finding out who you REALLY are (not the bullshyt you learn in school or church or from your parents)....what makes you tick...what brings you joy...finding your purpose and LIVING your life through that.
 
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